she obviously has some insecurities about herself, whatever that it is you could help her identify them and then she will be able to be honest with herself as to why she is lowering herself to the standards of what you refer to as a loser.
she obviously has some insecurities about herself, whatever that it is you could help her identify them and then she will be able to be honest with herself as to why she is lowering herself to the standards of what you refer to as a loser.