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Sherni u'll be giggling ove r it tomorrow. You are just angry at him right now cos he didn't call u? He'll make up for it. And if he doesn't then its better over, why waste any more time on someone whodoesn;t care!
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Sherni are you sure he is just a friend? Looks like you have very strong feelings towards him. Don;t let your emotions get the bettr of you. Keep them under control. You are clearly distressed and he has more influence on ur life than is healthy. Why hasn't he met up with you? Does he really not have time at all? Why do u have to meet up wit hhim solo? Don;t all you friends get together? You must have mutual friends or don't you? YOu wanted him to call you and he did twice. It's better not to say anything when u r that angry. If u sincerely regret what u said call him back and apologise. See if u can patch up. Tell him u were angry at him and ur sorry. Give a detailed call later on in a couple of days. DOn't lose ur cool. Again if he is just a friend try to understand tha the has his persona llife too and other friends plus family too. Must have studies or work too. If you are romantically inclined towards him find out if he is ready to reciprocate the feelings, if he likes you the same way. Maybe its the obscurity and uncertainty that torments you. Its better to say it out then keep it in. If u r both mature u will still be able to cary on ur friendship even if things don't work out the other way. Is it really worth it to torture yourself like this? You'll only gte grumpyand vent at him for something he isn't even aware of. There has got to be a reason for why he didn't call or meet. Maybe he doesnt like u as much as u like him! Thats something u'll have to come to terms with and the sooner u get to it the better.
I think i dug too deep there!
This is one area I am not good at. dealing with over-sensitive girls ain't my cup of chai.
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No.. he wont call me, i told him not to call me, i know he wont, cuz he asked me twice.. "are u sure"... n im so f'ckin stupid... "i jus kept on sayin YES! u bet im sure..." i know.. its also my mistake.. i jus expect so much from ppl.....i expect em to have time for me.. im the one whos so darn stupid
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Can anybody help me the above few lines. The girl is sure that she doesn’t want to talk to the guy and then she complains that the guy doesn’t have time for her. I think this is for the Mods (re: sticky thread) to answer.
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I was so darn angry n i still am. kahan say start karon… kahan say khatam karon…
offcourse i wanna talk to him… bus…but meri ziid ruined everything..
awww koi baat nhin ..thoRa thoRa kur kay shoroo kur do...So what did the poor guy do wrong?
I would call him and apologize or talk it out, if you value his friendship. Put aside your fear and anger, pride whatever. But I'm just looking on the outside, so I dont know the extent of your situation.
U need to take control Sherni. Sometimes being this way drives the other person away. No one wants an emotionally fragile person to hang out with. Just relax and don’t let it get to you. Don’t think about him. If he doesn;t feel the same way about you it is always going to cause you stress and misery. Maybe he feels you expect too much from him and that’s why he keeps his distance. Maybe it’s his way of telling you not to expect anything from him. If you want to keep him as a friend you are going to have to give him lots of space. If he has so much influence over you do you really want to keep him as a friend?
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i dont no wat to say …
i know how u feel…it hurts na..
Wake up meri behna. The man is not interested in you. That's ok. It may be hard for you to realise this but your were not made just for one person. Any number of decent guys out there would make you just as happy. You don't have to forget him, just move on with your life. I have done it many times.
dont say anything …
More than u can imagine…