my baby is cryin all the time!!!!!

seriously sahar i m all for her sleepin… i know she shud b sleepin alot but since she was a newborn her sleepin patterns have been the worst. i xpected her to sleep for 4-5 hrs at a strech and wot not since i heard newborns sometimes need to be awaken for feed but in her case she never slept more than 1-2 hrs. i dun expect her long stretches of sleep but atleast she shud sleep in day time too and not cry after i feed her (5-10 mins afer BF or BB) how can i put her to sleep. u said i shud do that but with a baby as fussy and cranky as her.. i jut dunno how to. i read the link u gave too. i dun mind her givin me sleepless nites since i dun work but i want her to sleep atleast at daytime and play for atleast half n hour or so. i feel soo low and so unfortunate at not have a typical baby.. i feel so angry. many a times i haev lightly whacked her bum while she is cryin like hell… its sooo damn frustrating. i hate that i hate her when she cries like that. she is turnin into a monster and i m too cus i end up thinkin why my baby is soo fussy why cant she b like other babies.