Here are general examples:
1) You’re in the workplace…or maybe you’re applying for a job. You know your accomplishments that you have worked hard for. You are a person of honesty and integrity living in a world that you know is not always fair. On your resume you mention your qualifications and your accomplishments honestly. But perhaps you don’t get the job. And the job instead end up going to someone who shamelessly LIED on their resume. I’m not talking about a little fib or white lie or slight exaggeration here and there…I mean the person TOTALLY MADE STUFF UP. Maybe the individual was fired for being incompetent and unprofessional in his last job. But anyhow…he ends up getting the job…whereas you go back to your job hunt in this struggling economy.
2) Or perhaps…you see someone at work who keeps getting “ahead” by playing dirty. He doesn’t do any of the work…steals other people’s ideas and passes them off as his own…while those who work their butts of sincerely are not being recongnized quickly.
3) Or maybe you’re a student who feels frustrated knowing that some individuals are getting easily accepted into schools when they have lied on their applications about their accomplishments or plus points…where you’ve tried to stay true to yourself.
The person who is cheating may eventually get caught somehwere down the line. He/she will get what they deserve either in this world or the next. If you NEVER did any hard work or participated in noble activities…and then you lie about it…you’re not used to doing that kind of work. So…when someone asks you do handle such responsibilities…you might not live up to the expectations. Whereas someone who has good ethics from the start is more reliable and competent. What goes around comes around. If the foundation of your career/goal/venture/ is one that is built on dishonesty…it’ll come back to you eventually.
So…why should one continue to be honest? Because we as humans would like to believe that there **STILL **is some decency, some honesty, some sense of shame, some sense of humility left in the world today. It’s hypocritical of us to complain that others have no morals…if we ourselves give-up on doing what is right. If we’re going to cheat ourselves…why complain if somebody else has cheated us? If there is even the **SMALLEST BIT **of good left in this twisted world today…the credit goes to those FEW INDIVIDUALS who persist against their lower desires to prove to people that GOODNESS has value and that it hasn’t become extinct. It is these FEW PEOPLE who serve as examples to others…and maybe some people have followed in their positive footsteps.
—Lady I know im Nutwer. And i comprehand the honesty and leadership issues. But da real thang is, ‘great things’ are easier said than done.
And to be honest your line i underlined bout ‘hypocrisy’, well avary body has limits to tolerance, patience, hardwork. SO mcuh else is ging on our lives lady.
And da thang that pisses guys like maself and bro pendu da most is when decent girl like YOU, are freely giving themself to those 'players/losers addresed. IT IS SICK!
And talking bout us few individuals lady, its not fun being left as the standbuyer watchers.
People who resist thier damself from thier desires do it for a reason .
And it is stressful resisting things you need. That is lost enerygy that could be used elesewhere - i.e advancing your career which u chicks like.
****************** So, it is pathetic to complain, “Why do I have to bother avoiding premarital sex when so many good virgin girls are marrying non-virgin guys. If the guys can get the SAME GOODS either legally or illegall…then why should I make the effort to keep it in my pants?”**
No its not pathetic. Everybody is different. Sorry bout this but men have been created for sex, its a part of mans nature, are those who will not and are resisting thier instincts-like any resisting any other instincts will be problematic.
Various people have various ways of coping. But what is natural is natural.
^^^ THE FIRST MISTAKE: DO NOT REFER TO WOMEN AS “GOODS” EVER!!! UNLESS YOU WANT YOUR OWN GOODS KICKED!
The word “GOODS” refers to MATERIAL ITEMS and OBJECTS…NOT HUMAN BEINGS. Any guy who calls a woman “goods” DOES NOT have respect for women and is reducing them to objects. He can claim to be a loyal and nice and respectful guy who will treat women nicely. But his true attitude toward women is seeping out in his vocabulary. Has his sexual frustration overwhelmed him to the point that he can’t even manage decent vocabulary for the species he so badly wants to hump? Has he become that weak and fallen that low? And the excuse that one can be casual in their choice of words on a public forum is inexcusable. People form impressions with their choice of language. And no female (some random chick, your wife, your girlfriend, your sister, your mother) would have respect for a man who sees her as “goods.” So…correct your attitude about women…before deciding to hump them either before marriage or after marriage.
Apologiez for any offence felt. 'good’s was used by my humorus style only in order to make things clearer. Nutwer understands, and reassures u does not think of women as objects.
And now to answer the question. So why should one remain virgin if the non-virgins are ending up with pure spouses in the end? For the same reason that many others choose to go about their daily life in an HONEST way while being fully aware that the dishonest are getting ahead. These people are leaders…not followers. They KNOW the importance of being positive examples. And ultimately they do what is right because it’s the principle that counts. They know they have the option of joining the evil-doers and getting ahead like them…BUT they decide to go about the more challenging but honorable path in life. Because **SOMEONE **has to leave some goodness behind to hope for.
Alrite, lady so Nutwer and co, and co should be leaders. wow lady your a braveheart.
Is no such exists such as envy or jealousy in the world? Nevertheless maybe some do like continuing as leaders but still find the world influencing.
-and You definitly watch too much movies.
And if ONE cannot understand even that simple concept…one is truly lost. It’s like a kid whining to his parents, “But the other kids are lying, cheating…why can’t I do that?”** Why should we even bother teaching character and moral values to our children and students…if EVERY SINGLE PERSON in the world is going to have the attitude that “I’ll get the goods illegally.”** We teach these values in the hopes that at least few people will learn the message and carry it forward.
Some things are so simple that they don’t require an essay of a post to understand. But for those whose minds are locked and internal frustrations are taking priority over their conscience and ability to reason…no length of post…no amount of answers…no amount of opinions…will ever be enough.