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It’s true it has opened. It’s in California. And all the malvis have their panties in a twist. Now all of a sudden newbie mullahs are posting on facebook about how we should make masjids in the US more women-friendly.

Um, too late now. After much protesting and fighting, some female scholars opened up their own masjid for women.

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There has been a female imaam somewhere in DC for a few years. I remember reading about her and her thoughts on Islam a few years back
She believes religion should be inviting, rather than making people feel bad for their sins.
She leads prayers. She also does nikkahs for gay muslim couples.

I’m sure I posted about her on here somewhere, but I’ll try and find something about her.

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Nvm. Found it faster than I thought lol

Progressive Muslims Launch Gay-Friendly, Women-Led Mosques In Attempt To Reform American Islam


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Women’s Mosque Opens In L.A. With A Vision For The Future Of Muslim-American Leadership

Women’s Mosque Opens In L.A. With A Vision For The Future Of Muslim-American Leadership

Antonia Blumberg http://s.m.huffpost.com/assets/[email protected]
The Huffington Post Posted: 01/30/15 05:46 PM ET Updated: 02/03/15 09:59 AM ET

The Women’s Mosque of America opened its doors on Friday in central Los Angeles, welcoming a crowd of Muslim women from around the country.
L.A.-based professionals M. Hasna Maznavi and Sana Muttalib serve as president and co-president of the mosque’s board, respectively, and have worked with the rest of their team for months to bring the project to fruition. By day, Maznavi is a filmmaker and comedy writer, while Muttalib works as an attorney. They teamed up with the Pico Union Project, an interfaith worship space in Los Angeles, to house their mosque, and held the first juma’a, or Friday prayers, on Jan. 30. Edina Lekovic, the director of policy and programming at the Muslim Public Affairs Council, led the mosque’s inaugural khutbah, or sermon, and congregants were invited to join in a post-juma’a discussion and Q and A.
The Women’s Mosque is making its debut at a time when many American Muslims are questioning the traditions and norms they grew up with. The Chicago-based writer Hind Makki started a website in 2012 called “Side Entrances,” which invited women to post their photos and experiences at worship services. Mosques are often segregated by gender, sometimes with wall dividers marking off each area. Many women have expressed frustration at these divisions, and as Makki told NPR earlier this month, many men had no conception of the women’s experience.
“They just had no idea that this was somewhat typical of women’s experiences at a mosque – that you go to a mosque and you don’t see a dome; you don’t see the imam, certainly; you don’t see the architecture – you see a big wall in front of you,” she said.
The Women’s Mosque tackles that issue head-on.
“The emergence of a female-only mosque is a natural outcome of the culture of female exclusion in mosques across the country,” Makki told The Huffington Post by email. “A female-only mosque empowers women to take ownership of religious scholarship and spirituality in a safe and welcoming space.”
HuffPost spoke with Maznavi and Muttalib about the process of opening a women’s-only mosque and what they see as the future of Muslim leadership in the U.S. Their answers were written and edited jointly except where noted otherwise.
Why, in your opinion, is a women’s mosque necessary?
We believe that the Women’s Mosque of America can play an important role in strengthening the Muslim community at large by increasing women’s access to Islamic knowledge, encouraging female participation in existing mosques and fostering Islamic leadership and scholarship – both within and outside of the Muslim community. The Women’s Mosque of America seeks to provide an atmosphere in which Muslim women are surrounded by their peers and feel comfortable exploring more active leadership roles in a safe space.
What experiences in your own religious life led you to embark on the project?
Muttalib: As a young girl, my mother and father taught me that Islam was a religion that promoted equality among classes, races and sexes. With time, I realized that the egalitarian spirit of Islam that I loved so much was not always upheld or applied in Muslim spaces. When I reconnected with the Quran as a law student, I found that the text solidified my belief that Islam promotes the rights and equality of women. A closer look at Islamic history also made me realize that women played an important and strong role in throughout Islamic history.
Maznavi: As a young girl growing up in California’s largest mosque, I always felt welcomed and included. But once I left home and began exploring mosques outside of Southern California, I realized many mosques favored cultural practices of secluding women over Islamic practices of inclusion. It was hard not to internalize this disconnect in God’s houses as a lack of worthiness of my connection to God. I began studying under various female Islamic scholars across the country and found my studies transformative and incredibly empowering.

What has the process been like? Have you encountered roadblocks?
We were able to secure our venue through establishing a supportive partnership with the Pico Union Project in Los Angeles – a beautiful multifaith synagogue that hosts six different religious groups, including Christians, Jews and now Muslims. We are honored to be the first Muslim group to join this wonderful multifaith effort toward peace and understanding between the Abrahamic faiths.
Though our planning process has been a largely positive one, the primary roadblock we face is that of securing funds to cover our operational costs. At the moment, the Women’s Mosque of America is a volunteer-run organization that depends on the goodwill of its volunteers and the generous contributions of supporters and congregants. Our hope is that we will be able to secure sufficient funding that will allow us to expand our programming.
What feedback have you gotten from men in your religious communities?
We have received numerous messages from men who have expressed that they are enthusiastic about our concept and are encouraging their mothers, sisters, wives, female friends and daughters to attend our first Friday prayer service. Specifically, we have heard from a number of young fathers who have told us they are grateful that their daughters can one day participate in a space like ours.
We also have two male board members who were so supportive about this idea that they personally wanted to become involved. One of them is the new father to a baby girl and wants her to grow up in a world where she has access to a space specifically designed to develop her nearness to God.
**What elements of the new mosque are you most excited about? **
We are most excited by the fact that a woman speaker, or khateeba, will be able to address women’s issues and concerns from a female perspective and with an all-female congregation. In most existing mosques, women do not often get a chance to access the male imam for questions or discussions after prayer, because he is in the men’s section and is inaccessible until a later time. The concept behind the post-juma’a conversation is to further facilitate meaningful conversations between the congregants and the khateeba, and to increase women’s access to productive discourse relating to faith and to Islamic scholars who can answer their questions and speak to their concerns.

Khateebah (One who delivers Khutbah) answers a question during the reflection/discussion circle
How do you envision the future of Muslim leadership in America?
We envision a future in which every Muslim conference is filled with equal numbers of female and male Muslim speakers and religious authorities, in which every mosque in America has an equal number of Muslim women and men on their board, and in which each mosque has full attendance by their entire congregant base because of the improvements they’ve made in making their mosques more inclusive and inviting for women. We also hope male imams will increase their access and availability to their female congregants – particularly after juma’a prayer is over – and that they will work with women in their congregations and on their boards in the planning process when designing the architecture and seating structure in their mosques.

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^ like a conceptual mosque ?
Seems like they are in a church of synagogue building.

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I’d love to move to California just to joint them honestly.

The only mosque around here is led by an angry Egyptian who *itches about leadership in Egypt in his khutbas, and yes, we have a separate area for females and can’t see the architecture of the mosque. And I have to deal with ceiling tiles hanging off with pink fluffy insulation hanging out of the ceiling exacerbating my allergies. I spend an entire day coughing and sneezing after Jummah.

Stopped going there, I just read at home.

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:confused:

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There is no one answer, is there? Some may want to open up priesthood pundit position or Imam position to both genders.

So those who don’t feel the need can continue the status quo. And those who feel the need can be a part of the change / process.

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Why the confusion? Inclusiveness is a good thing, right? On this score, Islam beats Hinduism, where to the best of my knowledge, there is no such pathway for inclusion.

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Absolutely. I will go a step further and open it up to men. Maybe let them sit next to shoes in a corner.

I would much rather listen to a female educated Imam than a moron with a beard who makes no sense. Modern world respects knowlegde regardless of the sexual organs one is born with. Time we get caught up.

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If we HAVE to generalize, then Muslims make Islam look bad with,

  1. lack of tolerance,
  2. lack of commitment to education,
  3. lack of respect for law (in their home countries or adopted ones), and
  4. lack of decent work ethics

Terrorism would be much down the list.

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Let me be the bad guy and ask the obvious question: Why can’t we admit that there is part of Islamic dogma that inspires people like ISIS, Taliban and other such groups & wants to take us back to 5th century Arabia? That is not a western conspiracy, but reality & we must admit that and face it & instead of making excuses for it.

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Let me be the devil’s advocate and try to resolve it.

Actually, this lust for power and the idea that “I am right, everyone else is wrong” is part of pretty much every society’s psyche. Every power wants to dominate. You want to dominate at work, your family wants to dominate the tribe, the tribe wants to dominate the country, and so on.

The issue here is how to go about it. For the most part, Muslims are stuck in the ‘golden days’ of Islamic empire. In those days, strength meant having a bigger army with stronger swords. This worked too.

The world changed. Now, scientific advancements and innovation determined your strength. This was the reason why a small island in Europe completely dominated the world. A few thousand men would go from Portugal and Spain and dominate whole of South America. This went on while Muslim societies still believed in the might of the sword. Result: Not a single decent university in ‘Islamic’ states.

The world changed again. Now, economics determines your strength. Saudi Arabia is a friend and Yemen is not kind of thing. There are no ‘friendships’ in international relations, only money talks. Japan, S. Korea, Singapore, Hong Kong, etc. have limited military capabilities but have much more say in world affairs than Pakistan, purely because of their economic strength. Still, we continue to believe in the might of sword. Result: Not a single ‘Islamic’ country which is able to economically assert itself.

The idea is this: True, Muslims want to dominate the world. Every society does that. Nothing inherently wrong with it. What they need to realize is that You CANNOT fight your way to the top. You are too far behind in technology to do that. The only way is to dedicate massive resources to education and expect getting results in at least half a century.

A case in point: If Pakistan were economically significant and technologically strong, then even without an atomic bomb, world would listen to us on our issues with India.

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Right and the life and speeches of Rasullah SAW and the Quran do NOT support taking the world by force or by sword. Not all of the Islamic world was won by sword. It spread like wildfire because Islam was not practiced at that time the way it’s being practiced now. They focused more on thinking, philosophy, discussions, debating. The intellectual arts. Not superstitious BS. Science has many roots in muslim history. Somewhere along the way, people got corrupt.

Agreed with many comments here.

Muslims need to get their shyte together seriously.

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thanks khatti and all for posting that article.
I’m actually quite intrigued. I hope things go well.