maybe it is popular topic among awam but generally speaking not all Muslim talk about this issue all the time. Even if they do then there are valid reasons for it because these are one of the most neglected obligations. But I do agree with you that other topics should also be talked about along with these
subhaanAllah, you have serious issues about controlling your anger. Please stop attacking people with straw man: putting words in their mouth. Did he say what you should wear or what you should not? In fact, he said the opposite that do whatever you want and that is your fair.
honestly, I am amazed at your speech and level of husn al-dhan for fellow Muslims.
define violence. If you want to go by general definition then such necessary “violence” is found in sharee’ah, i.e., hitting your wife, hitting the child when he does not pray after he reaches a certain age