Re: Muslim women marrying non-muslim Men
That depends on many things FF but mostly on the country you live in or the cultural practices of the area where you are. Christians are maternally based. Muslims are paternal. Not sure about Jews. But its a cultural thing as far as how the whole marriage and resulting children are perceived no matter what the couple tells people prior to their marriage kwim?
What planet of Christianity are you talking about? I have very good friends who are fundamentalist Christians from the south, and I know pretty well by this point how paternalistic their systems are. They believe openly that men have an upper hand in family and decision making matters, they pass on the name of the father rather than the mother, and have very similar beliefs about what it takes to be a "good wife" compared to rigidly strict sunni beliefs.