Re: muslim women and non muslim man
islamic law on inter religious and intern racial marriage is not discussed enough openly.
personally, being true to your self and to the person you are seeing, you can use pragmatic approach and be content with your heart.
there is no treatment plan for a unsaid things when they could have been said.
if you think you like the person, and you are willing to stand for them, then you will be able to convince others of what you want without being arrogant or rude.
in UK a lot of people frown on this. the concern is not having pure lineage anylonger.
other option is a guilty feeling for the rest of one's life. and that is not adviseable.
cheers!