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…sara hat’s off 
ps, but not all of them are same alhamdullilah 
there are different levels of friendship…having intelligent discussions on regular basis with someone and making sure each other family is ok…is not the same as gossip, flirting or clubbing friendship:D…fisrt friendship is ok …second is to be avoided btw people of opposite gender…before and after marrriage
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all my male friend are non-muslims...but i'm not allowed to talk to them in fromt of any desi's that i know because they'll just assume that they're my boyfriend or something stupid...when in actual fact they treat me with far more respect than any of the muslim guys i kno...they're honest, truthful and can have a laugh...whilst desi's only want 2 kno a girl for one reason only!!!
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The muslim community is generally pretty ignorant and backwards.. but having friends of the opposite gender after marriage isnt a human right. It is sumthing u and ur hubby and whichever other who's opinion matters to u shud agree on. If u and ur hubby are both genuninely ok with u both having friends of the opposite gender then whats the problem. If u r totally ok with ur hubby having excatly the same kind of friendship with a non muslim female that u have with a non muslim male then he shud be ok with it to. If he's not then u guys have sumthing to clear up and reach to sum kind of mutual understanding that satisfies u both.
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Its a FRIEND who happens to be a BOY/Man 
I honestly dont care.
Once abu ji and ami ji came to pick me up from my Uni. As i was approaching the car my friend Casey was with me. A very nice young fellow. I introduced him to both of my parents. Abu and him spoke for few mins and ami ji listened to the conversation.
Every now and then whenever he sees my father he will go up and say Assalmoalikum Mr…- He is Non-Muslim but he knows how to greet a Muslim :~).
My sister has few non muslim friends. Abu and ami are friends with the family at this point. John knows he and his family are welcome at our place anytime. My sister threw a surprise party for one of her friends in her circle. [Poor john 6’5 had a lot of trouble standing in our basement ]
so we are cool 
when you hide something then its wrong - if you are open no one honestly care. Well i also have a label of being badtameez with few people - i just dont care. Logo ka kaam hai kehna …
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this kid is such an instigator lol
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He meant if it were true that the guys who looked down on women were the ones having sex with other grlz.. so some guys can NOT be having sex and will still look down on em.. Make sense?
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male friends, not BOYFREINDS..
Anyway if he does the same and worse, then what gives him the right to look down on her
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I don't have any girl-friends now, why would I have them after marriage? I have only female aquaintences.
My opinions differ so much with the majority here that it seems like I'm instigating. Although, I have a feeling that some of you agree with me but are too scared of admitting it; you're afraid that you'll get demonized.
Be brave and speak your mind.
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Men and women cannot be friends, because the sex part always gets in – Harry met Sally (1989)
http://www.paklinks.com/gs/journal.php?do=showentry&e=13913&enum=30 – Shweetdreamz
Women, however, think that some men want to be friends with them w/o the sex thingy. Wrong.
– Dope
In all seriousness, does your husband have a problem with it? If no, then tell the others to gently f*** off. If your husband has a problem with it, then you need to open a new thread.
Please page me if you need anything else.
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^ So most men want to bed their female friends?
What abt the guys that don't, does that mean their female friends are not bed-able :o
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^ There is always some degree of infatuation involved between male and female friends, it just needs appropriate time and conditions to come out, its usually these "friends" that bed the spouses when marriages fall apart.
Sometimes, even people do not knwo it themselves, some times they do but decive thier own selves.
I dunno how many of u will understand this verse of Iqbal but it puts everything into perspective:
"Hawas chhup chhup key seenoon main bana laiti hai tasweerain"
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^ I dunno, it seems kinda weird, that if all guys want to bed or have a crush on their female friends, then then then I dunno .. :(
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^ Did u understand the verse?
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No
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i rightfully agree with the top comment and verse. its a matter of time before these male or female friends get bedded. the biggest trick the devil played was to convince the world that he did not exist.
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lol good joke! :D
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QUestion is that does islam allowed the interaction with married women with nonmuslim male , no islam do not allowed any interaction with na mehram it is clear weather it is a muslim or not , it is cleared. i don't care hwat the world thinka nd what do u want to put infront the world when ALLAH has not giving us the permission and if u think its narrow minded then i guess we are claiming that we know much better than those who has created us.
sceond point u ask would it would be rude to reject to shankd hands with them ? no it won't be rude if u let them know what is the reason behined it. on one hand u r saying u should tell them what islam tell u and on the other hand u r just doing oppsite what islam teach by shaing hands with na mehram. :)
last and most important thing if u had husband its much better to let them explain and those guys have females u can explain them , they know every single thing its just who make big issuees that how to tell them they very well aware guys don' t even think they don't know its just us. :)
i hope its clear now :)
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uh uh :nono3: i wrote that in one of my “i feel *****y” days. furthermore this applies only to ladies that HAVE an ass.
yes alot of “men are this, men are that” goes on in GS…a lotta generalization but u gotta be really stupid to believe it no questions asked. its all in good fun but i think men are fairly capable of being good friends (without the sex thingy) with women. you cant be sitting at home talking about how all the men out there are…go out, get to know people…women should get to know men as “people” and men should get to know women as “people”. in many cases a non-muslim male friend may be your most un-biased, un-*****y, truth-speaking friend. in some cases a muslim male friend might prove to be more sincere or resourceful than a female friend. unless ofcourse you are a drop dead gorgeous woman and men fall in love with you at first sight. then yes its more than possible they are thinking of sex before friendship. Its also very easy for a girl to figure out in most cases if the guy is sexually interested in her or not.
i agree with the fact that if your husband has problems with it u might want to consider which relationship holds more importance for you and if this behavior is also reciprocated by your partner.
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Very well said Iconlast :k:
I agree that there could be sincere and true friend (from opposite sex), and we can see/feel that sincerity. But it would not last always. I think keeping it to certain limits would be ok. Islam has certain rules for that, for example, na-mahram should not meet when they are alone. After all, our Creator knows us better than anyone else.
Another important point i would like to mention that most of you have quoted that “if your husband/hubby is ok then everything is ok or don’t care for other people”. I think this has a weak basis. You have got another relation above that, your Creator (if u believe in that). If your husband has a bad character and wants to enjoy his life and let u do the same then this will take you both to a disaster. You should have your own character, and should feel accountable to God, not just your husband.
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no Anil its your manner that sometimes offends people.its a public forum and your views are welcomed .you wont be demonized.there is a difference btw male-friend and boy-friend there is no romantic involvement here.this is precisly why i put this question up.
why do we always have to go for the negative aspect, r we trained to see things that way?