Muslim men are one of the most strangest and hypocritical people in the world. They will worship women who are non muslim and look at them pervertedly because of their revealing outfits western women wear. BUT when muslim women start wearing western type clothing the men say haraam to them and condemn them to hell.
How do you look at a woman wearing revealing clothes in a perverted way?
Here's my analysis:
Woman wears a mini skirt to attract attention to her tush. If attention is attracted, mission is a success! Where's the perversion? Good to see you are so open minded. Got any pictures of sisters or other loved ones in "revealing clothes? As you hate hypocrisy, I am sure you won't mind sharing them with all!
Well Salman I would not specifically categorize this as a problem of muslim men, nut rather maybe of just men in general...but we need to lower our gaze and not be hypocritical about it
And Mr Xtreme, it is perversion (on both sides) when 'girls' show off their body, because it is a sexually attractive gesture; it focuses on the body more than the person or any other matter...but you are right, their whole goal is to get us to look and when we do, we have lost!!!
And we should all guard our modesty by dressing appropriately and not getting seduced by the wrong reasons!!!
Anything they like and you don't mind? Are u sure?
Mister, I've got an Xtremely vivid imagination and you are making my already warped mind flip cartwheels! You sure got a liberal attitude to your sisters, mother etc. You sound pretty perverted yourself Hotshot! How Xtreme do you want this to get?
Yeah, wouldn't mind doing some rat-a-tat-tatting myself if you catch my drift...
Yes, you should not generalize. It is not a “Muslim” issue. It is an issue about perception of women by “machismo” and “chauvinistic” cultures.
I would just like to add:
If a prostitute is standing naked on the roadside and I go over to see her. Even if God tells me that it was her fault because she was “attracting” me, I will tell God: God, you are stupid. If I have a weak character, no one but myself is to be blamed.
I agree with u. No matter what the temptation or dazzling attraction in front of me, I always keep my gaze solidly to the floor. In fact this has caused me a few problems as i keep bumping into lamposts. Any advice?
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Salman, you chickened out in the end didn't u! Rat-a-tat-tat turned into phut-phut-splutter?
The first thing I have to say about this post is "OH MY GOSH!" I couldn't believe that a guy is starting a topic on this type of thing since mostly girls would be concerned for the fact that guys go for "goris" and not them. But any how, I believe that the guys I've seen go for girls that are completely modern, never looking at the personality. I mean looks isn't everything. Most girls (that aren't modern)don't get married because of that reason, and that's pretty SICK!
Can anyone love each other like how Romeo and Juliet did?