Muslim and Non Muslim

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@farrah

by putting multiple exclamations, you arent making it sound any more important. it is important even without one.

if you dare to understand what i am saying, we wouldnt be arguing over this.

***i dont deny that God permits you to marry into women of previous books. ***but i am against of how lightly this ruling is taken .. and there are marriages happening left right and center between muslim men/n-muslim women without any consideration to under what circumstances such a marriage can take place.

how do you think a real virtuous christian/jewish woman would feel when her muslim husband is like our kids will be muslim but they can hear nice things about your religion too … just dont talk abou the trinity ok! i dont think so. it is for the same reason that a practicing muslim woman wont marry a non-muslim man.

as for you saying who are we to judge. have you ever come across or read about a muslim man who went into marriage with a non-muslm woman because he was blown out of his wits about the girls dedicatin to her religion?

it is a rule. you cant just marry any christian/jewish woman. but marriages of the sort happen normally out of love, which was first a physical attraction.

and i keep talking of bosoms as an example to tell you how man is so strict regarding laws about women, in contrast to laws about himself. i havent seen any man being prosecuted for marrying a christian woman who is one only by birth, and not practice.

Thank you, now I agree with your post.

You are right about the problems with marrying a Christian/Jewish woman but you cannot say that it is not allowed. What you can do, as you did in your previous post, is to acknowledge the fact that it is permitted and then list the issues that will arise from such a union.

As someone pointed out to you earlier in the thread that Trinity was well established by the time Muslims were given permission to marry women of the scripture, so it’s not like that Allah did not realize that and just made a mistake.

The reason I was asking you not to judge all Christians/Jews is because I personally know couples right here in the US of A, where the mom is a Christian, yet the kids are raised staunchly Muslim. These women take them to mosques and madarsas and Quran lessons and Arabic lessons and etc etc etc. And when you see that, you realize the limitless wisdom of Allah and refrain from second guessing him.

Now before you bring it up, let me acknowledge that fact that more often than not the children of such marriages grow up confused and non-religious.

But then again I see hundreds upon hundreds of families where both parents are Muslims and the kids are just like the local kids and do things that we cannot even discuss here while staying civil.
Should we now prohibit marriages between Muslim men and women, while here in the US, because there is a good chance that growing up here the kids will go astray?