Any way you can separate the crowd into two rooms/separate areas? I'm having some of my favorite dance music (mostly Western and Arabic tunes) at my wedding but the room where the dancing and music will be is advertised as single-women-only---everyone else will have a separate area with tables, chai service, and no loud music. I'll be able to discreetly pull in the married women I want there---American friends, my sister, sisters-in-law, etc. It's the most tactful way I could think of to keep away the aunties.