In Romantic Songs.. verbs are used which define beauty, form or shape, character ..and to ascribe these to Allah SWT are not Jaiz .. because Allah has no form, shape or His beauty cant be measured or judged ..
Therefore, nothing of this world no matter how beautiful , amazing, magnificent, great, it is it will never equate to the status of Allah Almighty. because He is Far beyond that and of our imaginations ..as even Musa AS could not bear to visualize the ‘tajalli’ of Allah Alimighty at Mount sinai ..
So, when a Person listens to a Song first of all many instruments are not jaiz in islam except Duff - and how many songs does one knw that arent without music .. ?? next to none i think .. then to listen to a song whose purpose and objective is to describe the beauty of a creation - in romantic song a woman .. and to ascribe this beauty to a ‘Being’ which is NOT a creation ..i.e. Allah ..its beyond my comprehension as to what that persons intention is and secondly .. songs which are for describing a beauty of a creattion .. naturally ..the human mind is set to default .. that when a womans beauty is being described or praised .. the human mind will automatically divert to a visual of a woman or if that person has seen the video of that ssong ..it will playback in his/her mind…and If after this someone still says that it reminds one Of Allah Almighty .. then i believe he/she is committing a sin because the beauty, status, or praise of Allah Almighty is beyond our comprehension.
Spirituality: What is the definition of Spirituality. Spirituality is something which is associated with the Praise of Allah Almighty and the the Praise of Holy messenger SAW. So if one assumes that spirituality is gained through a song ..then the only answer i can give for this is ..that … that person has a LONG way to go yet before one even touches the base of spirituality.
May Allah forgive me if i said anything which My Messenger SAW and Allah is not pleased (Aameen)
…but once spirituality is gained, then everything is jaiz!!! It’s just about you and your mehboob then!!! No holds barred in that love… everything forgiven… and listen to whatever “music” you want too!!
…and just for the record, I am not talking about Islam in general… I am strictly referring to the spiritual side… but you will only understand this if you have MORE than just basic knowledge of roohaniyat!!!