suppose u r a student and u share a house with 5 ppl who are also students
Now u have a frnd who comes over once a week to stay for a night and the following day as he has to attend his uni which is in ur city
this frnd used to rent a room for a night but since u have shifted to this city he thinks its better for him to stay with u rather than paying X amount of money just for one day
U dun mind but because u share a house with 5 other ppl its actually creates a probelm for 4u as they have to share stuff with ur frnd and u dun like this
it also disturbs the other 5 ppl
Now u want him not to come but u can;t tell him directly as he is a dooor ka rishta dar as well
so how wud u manage this situaton?
how wud u tell him this thing without hurting him?
Please help me guys
For one day, your roommate cant entertain your guest?
its not a matter of a month or a year :(
atleast 3-4yrs so u can imagine how u wud feel when every time ur guest pops in
i mean koi kab tak berdasht karay ga kesi ko?
guest ALLAH ki rehmat hotay hn...............keep this thing in mind n adjust in the situation
beshuk ..........but bear in mind that this peson is not living alone
there are otehr peopel as well so agar is terha her week sab k mehman anna shoro ho gay tu........
and thats worrying because this person doesn't wanna hurt this stupid rishta dar
Aur woh bunda us ki personal batto mai b interfer karta hy
He creates a lot of problems .........and situation is out of control here
so ppl please some serious suggestions would help alot
thanks
its not a matter of a month or a year :(
atleast 3-4yrs so u can imagine how u wud feel when every time ur guest pops in
i mean koi kab tak berdasht karay ga kesi ko?
are they not expecting any guests of their own to ever visit? I shared an apartment with few of my friends and we even had our parents visiting us and living for few days with us. No problems at all.
are they not expecting any guests of their own to ever visit? I shared an apartment with few of my friends and we even had our parents visiting us and living for few days with us. No problems at all.
Her koi aik jaisa nahe hota na
They dun say anything but berdasht ki b aik limit hoti hy
is say pehlay k woh bolay my frnd wants to end this process
and he comes over EVERY SINGLE week :)
I'm with the roommates on this issue. Unless there is mutual agreement in place that allows each roommate to have overnight guests, there is potential for someone to abuse the privilege. An occasional guest is fine - but this seems like a scheduled weekly visit. Clear this with the other roomies - if they're okay with it, be prepared to have one additional person living in the house each day since people will cite to equal opportunity.
ishi just talk to ur roomies about this issue and if theya re fine with it .... if they are not then just tell your door ka rishtedaar that listen my roomies complained about this ... and i can't really do much about it ... simple
Talk to him and just say plainly that the others are disturbed as there isn't enough room. I get that guest's have rights, but that has a limit too. If they are disturbing the other people you live with, and there isn't enough space, then talk to him. If they are going to be there weekly, tell them that the others want them to split the bills and utilities with everyone.
Ask your apartment mates before you invite someone , especially if its gona continue over the years . Mostly people are nice and they won't reject this idea . Once you'll have their consent then it will be easier for you and your guest to use stuff in the apartment .
I used to get so annoyed when the girls in my shared house last year used to have their boyfriends over all the time. It used to make me so uncomfortable and you can't be yourself in your own house- something you are paying for and they are free loading. It would be advised that you should ask your housemates before you have people over, espcecially if that other person is over regularly.
When I used to live with roommates, we all used to starve for guests. Be its anyone's guest. Sub mil ker khatir-tawazau kertey theey. When my parents were visiting me for a week, I offered to pay extra for Grocery etc but what they said in reply is not suitable for this family forum to post....
Now in this case because its matter of years and not weeks, Its better that you ask your roommates to add another roommate. Most of the time bachelor guys are accommodating (as compared to girls) specially when its saving them some money too..