How do you tell if your wife is hiding how many partners that she’s been with in the past? If she says that she’s only been with 1 guy yet you’ve had sex and her vagina is loose and you can’t really feel anything in there. (I’m being genuinely honest here, do not ban this). Yet she said that she had lost her virginity like 8 months ago and 8 months later she got in to another relationship but 2 + 2 don’t add up. How do you get her to be honest?
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If you are honest, she is honest. Or vice versa. Its that simple.
and if there was something in the past, why do you care? Its called “Past” for a reason.
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Maybe she had a kid recently 
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Maybe your penis is too small?
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^
Or that. 
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You will never know unless she tells you or if you violate her privacy and go through her phone/facebook/social media. Which at that point if you do that, the trust is gone in the relationship which is a really really bad sign. Tell her to practice keegals if the sex is so bad… or like the other poster said..take those penis enlargement pills
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Nothing good comes out digging in past, let it be whatever it is and enjoy the moment and future.
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If you asked her and she answered…you are required to believe her and let it be.
Instead of chasing her past, pray for your future. If you cannot get past this issue then walk away from her life before you get her pregnant and in a bigger mess than she’s already in.
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I know its difficult to digest but she was not your wife in then past. So, no need to dig up all those stories where she did not even know you and vice versa. Talk to her, clear the air and bury this forever. Honestly, you will feel so light.
Enjoy 
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Maybe her down there is just naturally loose. Believe it or not, every woman down there is different
It could also be that, she is possibly telling the truth and has only had one relationship before you and he made it loose (according to your tight/loose standards)
Have you been honest with your sexual past with her? If no, then you can’t blame her for not telling you the truth (if she is lying)
If you have been honest, and she trusts you, you will have to believe her too
This is all based on assumption. Either you believe her and move on. Or you get fixated on the possibility of her lying and make trouble in your relationship over an assumption which you can’t prove
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I´d reported the thread yesterday in the hope that it´ll be deleted, because it´s sexually too explicit and violates the terms of the forum.
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Bakra SaaHab…you surely need a Bakri instead of a woman…
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So it was because you assumed her private parts were tight down there that you married her. Your wife doesn’t mean anything more than the tightness of that part. Think about it, if you keep obsessing and doubting her honesty, eventually it will eat away at your relationship with her until there isn’t anything left of it. You can either value her positives and save your marriage or you can obsess over this until it maddens you into saying something to her you regret. That body part being loose or you thinking she’s been with multiple partners seems to make me think you see her as a whore, wow, she’s been taken from the respectable status of wife to whore right in your opening comment. That’s a surefire way of taking your marriage right into the dumps.
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You are coming off as someone who views women as sexual objects. What is with your obsession about the tightness of her vagina? I think it is your insecurities and paranoia at play here. Have you had sex with a lot of women before getting married to her? Did someone lead you on or lie to you before? Did someone cheat on you? There’s a root cause to your subdued paranoid thinking, otherwise you wouldn’t ask such a question about your wife on an online public forum. Another thing which I think is that you don’t even trust your wife. What kind of relationship is this, in which there is no trust? If she has said she hasn’t been with anyone except that one previous relationship, believe her. Like someone else said, there might be reasons why her vagina opening is loose.
You have to remember that this is a marriage, this isn’t a partnership for exclusive rights to have sex with one person. Marriage has a lot of other things to it too and one big thing is respect. You need to respect your wife, not think of her as a slutty woman or a sex object. The other thing you need to do is trust her too. What you also need to do is, stop obsessing about what she did in the past, or how many sexual partners she had. I am sure you knew some of her sexual history or something like that, before you married her. That means her being not a virgin was perfectly okay for you.
YOU NOW SEEM VERY HYPOCRITICAL. If a woman who is not a virgin is okay enough to marry, then why do you care who she slept with or how many? You knew she wasn’t a virgin, so her vagina won’t be tight like one. Now suck it up and deal with it. Respect your woman, treat her right, trust her and focus on building a life with her. If you don’t and you constantly focus on the past and her sexual organs, pretty sure this marriage will be over very soon.
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Don’t blame you for not believing her, this is the typical hogwash when someone is caught off guard, that it just happened once and only shot time ago. She clearly is not ready to tell you, at least for now, probably she will never be ready to tell you everything. I agree that there is no need to go dig her past, you will just hurt yourself in process whether you find anything or don’t. You have to ask yourself this question, Is she worth it? Is she as a human good enough to be your partner? To spend the rest of life with? If the answer is yes, then it doesn’t matter how many things have been down there. And ignore the snappy aunties on the forum.
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OP uncle aap room men bakri bhabi ke pas measuring tape leke jaate hen? You know you can also use a “D” to measure diameter
Btw why is there bakra talk going on this forum everywhere? In the other thread an uncle named bobby is hitting (and ALLAH janay kya kya) on goats, and here bakra bhai is complaining about bhabi’s downtown. Thats creepy