aashiq e na-muraad to gaali kha kar bhi bad-maza nahin hote.. aisa shayari ki books main likha hai 
In reality, what is position of self-respect against love?
Muhabbat main self respect hoti hai ya bus aage wali ki parwah hoti hai apni nahin? jaisa Ashfaq Ahmed ne kaha tha ‘Mehboob wo hota hai jiska na-theek bhi theek lage’
Re: Muhabbat aur Dhitai aka Love Vs Self-respect?
Asfaq ahmed ney barey soch samjh ke kaha tah ek dum theek
Jab app ko muhabbat hu gi or app ussey wese hi respect do gey apney app ko buhla ke tu wo bhi dey ga mager kabhi kabaar aisa nahi bhi huta 
ye muhbbat ka khel hai 
Re: Muhabbat aur Dhitai aka Love Vs Self-respect?
zaroori to nahin ke muhabbat ka jawab muhabbat se mile… kabhi kabhar mehboob / mehbooba saRoo bhi ho sakte hain.
aise main kitna bichna chahiye mehboob ke aage?
Re: Muhabbat aur Dhitai aka Love Vs Self-respect?
tu phir soch samjh ke dil or dimagh se kaam lena parey ga Life 1 jese mind chahiye huga 
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to phir to mohabat andhi hoti hogi… ager self respect ki parwa nahi… 
Re: Muhabbat aur Dhitai aka Love Vs Self-respect?
Aisi mohabbat sirf kitaabon main milti hai, jahan koi kisi ki khaatir apna app bhool jaaye. In real life (esp. in a marriage), respect is first and foremost. Koi bhi kisi ki lagaataar insult bardaasht nai kar sakta. If you love someone who keeps disrespecting you, then at some point it must change the way you look at them. Itna dheet tu koi nai hota mere khayal main.
Re: Muhabbat aur Dhitai aka Love Vs Self-respect?
zaroori to nahin ke muhabbat ka jawab muhabbat se mile... kabhi kabhar mehboob / mehbooba saRoo bhi ho sakte hain.
aise main kitna bichna chahiye mehboob ke aage?
hehe itna jis se uski izzat pe harf na aaye.
agar aag dono taraf barabar lagi hy to self respect ki gunjaish hy laikn agar koi janty bojhyy andha hy or behra ban jaye us ka koi ilaj nahi self respect to choren un ki to izzat bhe nahi rehti.Do kori ka kr deta hy ye ishk 
aisy logon k liye ghalib ny kia khoob kaha hy
ishk par zor nahi hy ye wo aatish hy ghalib
jo lagaye na lagy or bujhaye na bujhy
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aap ki baat sun kar mujhe Umera Ahmed yaad aa rahi hai.
Re: Muhabbat aur Dhitai aka Love Vs Self-respect?
Han zaroori nahi kay mohabbat ka jawab bhi mohabat say milay…
mager phir aesay saro kisam kay mehboob aur mehbooba ziydah arsay bardasht nahyi kiye jaskatay…
mohabbat karna na aur na karana aik baat hia… mager respect to har relation main chiahye hoti hia.. iskay bagir koi rishta nahi tik sakta… 
ab aesay bandy ya bandi kay liye bichna na munasib hoga…
mazeed roshni dalian…
Re: Muhabbat aur Dhitai aka Love Vs Self-respect?
Ghalib ne ye shair yak-tarfa muhabbat ke liye kaha tha?
Re: Muhabbat aur Dhitai aka Love Vs Self-respect?
kankar dekha tha aap ne? 
maybe not laikn is sher ko dono kisam k ishk sy relate kia ja skta hy
Re: Muhabbat aur Dhitai aka Love Vs Self-respect?
ghalib ko bulaya jaye 
baat tu app ki bilkul sahi hai ke respect se hi rishtey hutey hain 
matlab ke appp us ke liye marey jayein or wo koi response na karey tu us ko apny muhabbat ka ehssas dilana zarori hai ..
Re: Muhabbat aur Dhitai aka Love Vs Self-respect?
I didn’t like the drama. It wasn’t very effective at conveying the msg.
But do you agree with the basic premise that where there is verbal or physical abuse or constant disrespect (over small things which overtime do add up), should such relationships continue?
ghalib aye thy aik dafa culture forum me
Re: Muhabbat aur Dhitai aka Love Vs Self-respect?
depend karta hia… har rishty main mohabbbat kay taqazay alag hotay hia… maan aur beta… unki mohabbat alga… baap aur beeta unki mohabbat alag…
issi tarah.. bhia, behan, etc… har rishta anokha hota hia… aur har rishtay kay lihaz alga hotay hia… mager in sab main respect common hia… mohabbat mangi nahi jaskti.. koi kissi ko force nahi kar sakta hia… par respect har rishty ki zaroorat hia…
Re: Muhabbat aur Dhitai aka Love Vs Self-respect?
kon ghalib 
han me ny dekha hy logon ko real life muhabbat ki bheek mangty hue bhai jab dosra interested nahi to jaan choro us ki laikn nahi aisy logon ka kia ilaj hy?
