Re: Muah!
omg that so needs to be cut out otherwise whenever they see the video she is just gunna be so embarased... but the bride does need to say to the groom not to show his affection in public well not in front of her family thats just wel i think sort of disrespectful..
Re: Muah!
I think the man seen too many angrezi films, "and now, u may kiss the bride..." straight after the nikkah.
I do hope this new wife manages to control the beast in future...
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OMG!!! I feel sorry for the Bride.... bechari How embarassing it would have been for her..
She should definitely edit it, for the vdo being sent to Pakistan...
I think the man seen too many angrezi films, "and now, u may kiss the bride..." straight after the nikkah.
I do hope this new wife manages to control the beast in future...
lol
She should get two versions of the video to make everyone happy, one with the kiss edited and one which has the kiss in it.
I think the man seen too many angrezi films, "and now, u may kiss the bride..." straight after the nikkah.
I do hope this new wife manages to control the beast in future...
LOL LOL
Re: Muah!
She has all the rights to get the video editted. Call me paindu, fob, or whatever. I am on the girls' side and i think the guy should have considered her feelings and how their family is. I come from the same kind of family, a little on the conservative and religious side. If something like that happened on my wedding, it would have been a huge deal. On my wedding, when the doodh pilai rasam was happening, my husbands and my cousins were arguing about money, and my husband kept grabbing my hand jokingly "ke chalo chalein abb shadi to ho gai hei"...i was so embarrassed, and kept pulling my hand away. Eventhough it wasn't a huge deal, but i talked to him afterwards. At first, he didn't understand why i felt embarrassed, but understood where i was coming from. He never did anything like that again (infront of family, atleast).
Re: Muah!
I'd vote for the two version option. Keep it unedited for themselves and send the edited one to relatives. I know it sounds like a BIG deal now but few years from now they'll watch it and have a good laugh about it. I wouldn't want to loose it even if I don't appreciate it being done at the first place.
Re: Muah!
Poor girl!! I cant believe he called her a paindo for minding!! What a way to start your marriage 
If she is not comfortable with it then I think she totally within her rights to edit it out. The husband should at least respect her wish in this!
Re: Muah!
I like the idea of keeping one without the editing for themselves and edit the one that they'll b sending to Pakistan...
Re: Muah!
mahiya, first thing i wanna know. was it on the lips or cheeks?? if its on lip then def. no no no!! but if its on cheek then i guess its not that bad!!!
Re: Muah!
I know I'm probably the voice of dissent here, but isn't there something endearing about him wanting to kiss her? As long as his intentions were pure I can understand him feeling rebuked and rejected. At the same time I can sympathize with the poor bride as well. Our families are quite modern and we'll have a mix of ethnicities at our wedding, but the thought of kissing in front of so many people makes me feel uncomfortable too.
In any case, that is not what is being discussed. I also vote to have two versions of the video made. In the future, as she gets to know her hubby, she will hopefully come to appreciate his affection. Anyway, even if it will be edited, everyone will be talking about how the kiss was cut out. So there's not much of a way to avoid it, is there?
Beechari..
Re: Muah!
aww poor girl...i can imagine how she must have felt the whole evening...just tell her to 4get abt tht incident n convince her husband abt having 2 versions one 4 themselves n other one 4 their relatives...also tell her to b strong n clarify to her husband abt her likes n dislikes cuz its reli important 2 set rules at the start of thier marriage life cuz then it myt be too late
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I know I'm probably the voice of dissent here, but isn't there something endearing about him wanting to kiss her? As long as his intentions were pure I can understand him feeling rebuked and rejected. At the same time I can sympathize with the poor bride as well. Our families are quite modern and we'll have a mix of ethnicities at our wedding, but the thought of kissing in front of so many people makes me feel uncomfortable too.
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I think the bigger deal is not the fact that he kissed her, but that he actually called her a paindu and closeminded when she said she wasnt comfortable with him kissing her in front of everyone!! If he wants to be endearing, he should start with being considerate about his wife's feelings!