as there is this rusam called mu dikai guyz giving a gift to their wives, how many of you who are married or getting married are thinking of buying their husband’s a gift or brought their husband’s a special gift and what was it 
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during muNh dikhaayii rasam...relatives/friends/guests give something of value/cash to the bride and the groom...while couple do NOT gift each other...parents do on their behalf!...as far as i've seen from my childhood up until now!!! :)
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during muNh dikhaayii rasam...relatives/friends/guests give something of value/cash to the bride and the groom...while couple do NOT gift each other...parents do on their behalf!...as far as i've seen from my childhood up until now!!! :)
correct me if im wrong ur talking about general wedding families and relitives giving cash, but mu dikai is when the groom sees his wife when she comes to his house and he gives her a special gift ;)
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correct me if im wrong ur talking about general wedding families and relitives giving cash, but mu dikai is when the groom sees his wife when she comes to his house and he gives her a special gift ;)
**ohhhh you mean suhaagraat par...ok ok! my apologies!
in India "muNh dikhaaii" usually means the ceremony that takes place before ruKhsati whereby the grooms comes inside the house and saali/saalaas play tricks on him...they see each other for the first time in a mirror ...they are covered with a decorative sheet called maHzar...and someone who sings well recites the sehraa [a poem].
...well, i guess a gold/diamond set would be fine...maiN ne to already le rakkhaa hai ;) lol :)**
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My mom told me that this rasm was mainly meant for the guy.... that he buy a gift for his wife as "mu dikahi". So based on this I did not buy anything for my hubby. My husband (also clueless about rasms) was told the same thing ... so I was surprised with a gorgeous David Yurman ring :) So it worked out.
On our engagement, obviously he got me the diamond ... and knowing this I also bought him gifts so that later on he could look back and remember i gave it to him on our engagement. I got him cufflinks, 2 cashmere sweaters....and a David Yurman necklace.
Just this past eid ... he took me to see my parents and spend time with them.. my gift to him was a bracelet that matched the Yurman necklace I gave him previously :D
Other than these things i think the other most special gift i gave to him was I made a photo book complete with captions of his and his friends throughout the years. Photobook of memories. He loved it. :D
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I bought my husband a PS3 (gaming system), but gave it to him the day after the wedding, cause I didnt think it was a really romantic gift for our wedding night, lol! He got me a pair of Manolo's that I really wanted!
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WOW PSP!!! dont you think the PSP will become a "Sautan" ?
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i gave my huby a shirt matching 2 my dress for the next morning :)
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i gave my huby a shirt matching 2 my dress for the next morning :)
lol good idea
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i got him quite a few things but my special gift for my hubby to be is a identity bracelet going to have his name ingraved on it and have a special msg on the back of the bracelet :) i understand thts mu dikai is what your husband gifts u on your wedding night but i cant help it :D
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how about a $1 lottery ticket…wedding night is a lucky night so he may be lucky TWICE and may hit a jackpot 
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hahaha yeah he wishes im his big lottery ticket wat more can he ask for 
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yup…may be prove to be lucky for him…kam Kharch baalaa nashiiN 
Good Luck
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inshallah lol thanku
I've got my fiance a pen set with the date of our wedding day engraved on it!!!!
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WOW PSP!!! dont you think the PSP will become a "Sautan" ?
Surprisingly he doesnt play as much as I thought he would! I guess with his busy work schedule he just doesnt have the time.
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I've got my fiance a pen set with the date of our wedding day engraved on it!!!!
I like ur idea…from where in Pk we can get such pen?
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**ohhhh you mean suhaagraat par...ok ok! my apologies!
in India "muNh dikhaaii" usually means the ceremony that takes place before ruKhsati whereby the grooms comes inside the house and saali/saalaas play tricks on him...they see each other for the first time in a mirror ...they are covered with a decorative sheet called maHzar...and someone who sings well recites the sehraa [a poem].
...well, i guess a gold/diamond set would be fine...maiN ne to already le rakkhaa hai ;) lol :)**
We call this rasm with the mirror Arsi Mushaf.
Mu dikhai in my family is when the groom gives the bride a gift on the wedding night
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Imagine getting tickets to Europe...siggggh
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We call this rasm with the mirror Arsi Mushaf.
Mu dikhai in my family is when the groom gives the bride a gift on the wedding night
oh achchhaa...nice to see the variations in rasoomaat...vaise, where are you from? i mean what country/place you are talking about? :)