…with all due respect. I have a valid question. If I or any other guppie, for some mundane & stupid reason, insult ur mother or sister in a very deregatory way, would you just let me off with a warning or would you ban me…???
I have been on this board for a while & noticed there are some self proclaimed brothers of guppans over here. While some are valid, others aren’t. Who gave them the authority to speak on their behalf…you or some hidden super admin? I don’t even feel like insulting them, coz then there would be no difference between me & them.
I’m pretty sure I or any other guppie would be banned. If that is the case, then I suppose it should be made compulsory & the rule should apply the same to everyone on board, no matter who he/she is.
I have been in touch with you in this regard ehsan bhai, but this is feedback & I want to know what others think as well.
Mal1k bhai, in your title, you are addressing three people specifically… do you need feedback from regular normal guppies like me as well?
If yes, then I think, it all depends on who stars it first… then again, who’se gonna decide who starts it first.. if a mod thinks he/she or other guppy is innocent and did not start it first, believe me, he/she is right… hope you know what I meant
It’s a lost cause to go about asking it again and again.. it feels redundant now… I have lost hope after the last episode of bigotry played here without seeing or recognizing the context…
Just relax, and start avoiding the flammers and trouble makers as much as you can…
The dillema is if you report something bad, you are tagged as a “whinner” and if you do not, you are still blamed for not doing it… **it’s a LOST-LOST situation here… **
Take it easy and forget .. those who said something bad to your family and parents, thank them for saying that if no one recognize they were wrong for you have to have faith in Allah:swt: that He will make sure you get their good deeds in rewards, and if they are out of any good deeds, then they are gonna take your bad deeds in their name…
Those 3 specific people, as far as my knowledge is concerned, are the people in charge, & running the show here. It is addressed to everyone here as well, because we are what gupshup is comprised of. If there is no us, there is gupshup.
Agreed its a lost cause, coz I remember I was banned. Why not the same rule applied universally for everyone...? How can a mod or admin even know who started what, unless if they are really digging deep into matters. I am not a whiner, if that person he/she, has the guts to say it on one's face, then they are in for a deep surprise. I know in Dubai, there is a lot of respect for women, & I'm proud to be a part of it.
I totally agree with your win - win situation. And I would give my result, as soon as I have some more answers from others, including the ones I addressed, if possible.
U already know what I will say AQ, but I just want to wait till this thread.
Do what we do in real life with those morons, brining some one’s families into discussion and then insult them while sitting thousand miles away at unknown place (for users only) is itself a coward and disgusting act, and it shows the mentality and upbringing of that person itself.
This sin is not less than hacking GS site and get banned for life, at least these morons should be banned for some goos years!
But I agree to AQ, its a lost game only for the ordinary user.
I have been attacked by few members couple of years ago, but nothing was done against them, one with some super powers. Then makafaat-e-amal worked and one got banned for life for some other reason and other was demoted without any honor (for some other reason as well)
So my conclusion: its a waste of time here, nothing will be done and this happenings will keep on happening unless they attack on something else.
Malik I did take action and informed you of it as well. I think the issue is over now. The other person was genuinely sorry and did apologise. So let the matter rest there. I do agree that in this case you were the aggrieved party. Send me a PM if you wish to discuss it further.
Anno R U:confused: **