Moving too fast?

[Reha]

Re: Moving too fast?

@PyariCgudia

^ We get it you made it through the jungles of singledom and came out smelling like a rose, nice. Except, not all of us have gone thru the same things in life, and not all of us are in the same mental state, and not all of us have the same set of social skills. I’m relatively introverted in real life, and with scars, and it’s hard to make friends in general when you’re working so much, and life is the way it is. Everyone is plugged into the internet. Up until now I haven’t had the money to fly around. Grad school loans take a lot out of your 20’s, you can’t do that much that easily. And I don’t drink so most of the people around me were not options to hang out with after exams, and such. I wasn’t the type that ended up in the bar drunk.

Anyway, to each his own, glad you found something valuable in your life.

I also gave the example of my sister…there’s a ton more out there if you need them. I found and met a lot of people who inspired me after my divorce…it keeps you from doing the “poor me” thing too much.

Life is what you make of it. You need to make some choices for yourself…be proactive…don’t let yourself be at the mercy of “this is the way it is” because it ain’t. On the other hand, if you’re willing to accept that, then that’s also your choice.

I can type until my fingers are numb but nothing will help if all you’re looking for is sympathy. I don’t have sympathy.

I guess I don’t understand despair/helplessness very well…in my mind there’s always a way…you just have to find it.

The world is too big and there’s too much out there.

Life is short…one day you’ll look back at this time when you’re old and gray and wish you had done more. Don’t wait for that day.