Re: Moving too fast?
Assuming this guy is marrying her for love only…I see the above being the biggest potential issue. The condition that she can work as long as “family should be priority”…what does that specifically mean? Does that mean she can only work part-time? What will determine whether or not she’s complying with this condition? Also, what happens once they have children? Does he expect her to stay home? If she continues to work, who will watch the kids? Will they have family living near that will be willing to help OR can they afford quality childcare?
This is shallow but I know quite a few marriages where the people are miserable (and several that ended in divorce) b/c there were fights about money (ie. the husband’s income alone could not sustain the type of lifestyle the wife was used to/expected. So the girl in this situation seriously needs to ask herself if she’s ok with living the lifestyle HIS income alone can provide her.
In my humble opinion, that doesn’t necesssarily mean he’ll be a good/decent husband. I have plenty of clients who have impeccable professional resumes…but they’re TERRIBLE husbands/fathers.