Sannan
January 31, 2012, 12:33pm
10
Re: Moving too fast?
As mentioned earlier got mostly good comments from his work places. He seems to be a nice person more on traditional mold.
He was against her working, but now reluctantly agreed later on with condition that family should be priority over work.
He does not want to move oversea, but now open to it after few years (his job is ver well transferable he should not have problem moving).
Financially he is decent earner (but family is not as well off as us) without her working she would have difficulty maintaining her current lifestyle.
She would be secrifying one of the best possible job for moving back to Pakistan with knowing that her counterpart in Pakistan is well settled and unless the person decides to move on she has no chance securing that position.
Since we are from a decent family, thus wary of Rishta come because of our financial position or her passport. He presented himself very well, by initially tried to avoid her saying she is “Bade Ghar Ki Ladki Ha Aur Mare Bas Ki Baat naheen”.
But after very short period all misgiving disappeared, and he proposed her. I am wondering if it was genuine love made him compromise (he compromised on her career, agree to move out of Pakistan after few years of marriage).
Clever Guy, most of the guys initially says like this **“**I don’t wanna go overseas” :cobra:
Dude Marriage is a gamble! so don’t worry and give them a chance …
These are symptoms of a smart boy as well ! (Mujhay kuch yaad aa gia :hinna: )