that's it right there. unfortunately you can't really get away from and not deal with 'people'. living in pakistan everyone is constantly scrutinising and critiscing every aspect of one another's lives and it's just too much for a lot of people who are used to the way of life in the west.
yeh thats what im abit worried about it, because im really not like that so im guna get so annoyed with that, what is the best way to deal with those situations? im really crap of thinking of clever things to say at the time it usually comes to me like 5 mins later ...