Re: moving to pakistan to live with in laws
^ well uhm its suposed to be a long term thing for defo...i mean its a big house mashallah...and also wen we have children id prefer to live with them...on one side the babysitting aspect and on the other side i think its important for children to have a bond with grandparents..BUT in the first few years of marriage im unsure...and as u say it might be better to live wen wer older...cos we will e seen to be established and not newly married..
so in islam is it really not recommended?