Re: moving to pakistan to live with in laws
Have u asked him whether the living with inlaws is meant to be a short or long-term thing cos also u have to think what will happen if/when inshAllah u have kids and if u can handle the extra stress of having less of ur own space to bring them up etc. Islamically it isn't recomended to live with inlaws for obvious reasons unless they are old/infirm/lonely. Even if u did in the future would be better if they lived with u in ur house (obviously when ur older and when finances allow it) rather than u in theirs cos that way the dynamics are different, u and hubby will be more in 'control' if u see what I mean.
Good luck tho, hope it goes well 4u :)