Re: Moving away
Moving anywhere takes a lot of adjustment...
Not the same thing...but i remember when i had to make a choice between studying in London or moving up North for uni...
I ended up picking London...cos my mother is here...my friends are here...i know how everything works...where to go out and buy things...what to do at night...i knew where was safe and what wasnt etc...it was the easy option staying somewhere where you know how everything works...so i can empathise with you...
its never easy to go somehwere new where you have to sort of start all over again...have to make new friends etc...have to learn new everything...its difficult...
So between the two of you you need to compromise...6 months here and there isnt going to work...you both need stability...
lol my mum moved all the way from Pakistan to London...now that was a learning curve...she didnt have the benefit of a supportive husband or in laws...
So insh'allah if you do move your husband and in laws will do whatever they can to make you feel at home...becuase its on them to make sure you dont feel alone or like a stranger...