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i am very ‘mashraqi’ when it comes to this 
…i am a guy..why would i move for a girl??? lol isnt she suppose to leave her house after she gets married and move in with the guy
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and thats how it works too girls..unless you find 'joru ka ghulam' lol
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it’s a funny fact 
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So, I dont get it. If she has a US greencard/blue passport, a guy would get married and move in a heartbeat...
otherwise she has to move.
Is that how it works?
What if she lived in a great city that you've always wanted to be in? My friend recently met a guy that wants to marry her - he claims that Ohio sucks and he'd like to move to Miami.
And what if you know she's worked hard to establish some business or whatever where she is...and you have a do-takhay ka 9-5 job. You still would not want to move for her?
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Yes and I will. I would move to Chechnya for the one I Love.
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yes. I've done it before. Although I am not with that person anymore, I have no regrets and I'd do it again.
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those are interesting scenerios..i was never in such situations so i can't really answer..but for me the most important thing is to be close to my parents..i wouldnt leave em
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Never say never
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which ones? The do takay type or the so-so type or the ones that people actually find fulfilling?
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any? a job is a job... do-takay ki it might be in ur aankhein.. lekin at least its paying somenoes bills and letting them live..
personally, no job is do-takay ki... its mentality that which is..
sorry, off topic.. i know...
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Yes, it kinda is - I meant it as an example - not to generalize that all 9-5 jobs are garbage.
Indeed, I don't think many are.
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^ sorry PCG.. i so didnt mean to sound rude..
i just know a lot of people who work their butts off just to live.. and i know their jobs may not seem all flashy or watever.. but it helps them survive.. thats the only point i was making
sorries for sounding like a nutcase though 
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That's OKAY. Cuz you gave me a GREAT scenario.
Okay, so you worked your behind off to get that 9-5 job. Its paying really well and you're having fun at it. And you had to go thru so MUCH to get that job.
You meet a man - he says, comon, move to some random small city in Alabama.
Will you move?
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yes.
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in me magical red shoes "theres no place like home"
being cheesy, "home is where the heart is"
I wouldn't move to a crappy city with no real shoe shops or owt, but i would love to move to a different country. I dont think moving is such a big deal if ur married or living with a loved one...as long as you can make someplace ur home, i think its all good.
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If a movement of one part in a couple is required in order to unite the couple, it should be the lowest earner who moves, because that has the least impact on the financial health of the couple (assuming the cost of life in both locations are on par, otherwise incomes should be adjusted for living costs to come up with effective incomes)
So frankly, it depends whether I make more money than her or not.
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Well most of the time girl has to move for the husband. sighz so the answer is "YES"
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hmm ok.. rigth now if u asked me (with my current job situation) id move without even thinking… but in relation to the the scenario where i do love my job and ive worked my butt off to get it, id prob have to discuss it with the other half.. cant say either yes or no… it’d have to be discussed thoroughly..
b/w it’d be hard to give any proper answer right now.. circumstances and views change
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It is very important to live where both partners are happy. Otherwise don’t get married....u selfish soul.
Don’t import a slave (guy/girl) from your motherland. Don’t be stuck up on not moving to another place…be it Pakistan, Ireland or Rwanda. Don’t be stuck on money issues…finances are not everything in life.
Be mature people for god’s sakes…you are sharing your fkin life and the other person is equally inviolved...understand the meaning of it.
What’s with the demands and expectations? Flexibility in your nature is the key to success. How can u live with someone who is stuck up? I refuse to!