My friend was with a person for about 4 years and she was hoping that it will end up in marriage. It was a horrible break-up. The boy has completely moved on within a week but my friend has been struggling for over 4 years. She did badly in her school because she went under depression. She doesn’t know how to become successful in life now. However, she is a brave girl who has been surviving. All the roads has been closed down for her. She is emotionally not stable and disturbed. Please pray for her and provide some suggestions.
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What happened?
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Moved on within a week after a 4yr relationship? Wow.. two extremes..
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If she's depressed after all this time she prob needs counselling..
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Moved on within a week after a 4yr relationship? Wow.. two extremes..
Perhaps he had found someone & then did the breakup with her!
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Why so sad?
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any advices?
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Be a good friend to her and be there for her. Help her out of her funk.
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Distract her, introduce her to different hobbies, help her find some closure, etc.
If she is very disturbed even after four years...she needs to see a professional.
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Tell her to socialize......
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she should become a workoholic! seriously, involving yourself in an activity or work that is challenging really helps to shift focus and you forget about everything else.
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Therefore, I oppose bf-gf relationship.
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It's hard for me to believe that he moved on in just 1 week after being in a 4-year relationship. I think what probably happened is that the signs of the relationship fizzling out were there for quite some time before he ended it, and your friend was either oblivious to it or chose not to heed them.
As suggested by others, keep her busy with various things and encourage her to find peace through prayer. The more she gets out there, the more she'll increase her chances of finding someone better.
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Distract her, introduce her to different hobbies, help her find some closure, etc.
If she is very disturbed even after four years...she needs to see a professional.
4 years?!?!? This is beginning to sound like Sarah from Humsafar!!!
Jokes aside...if it's been that long and your friend still can't pull herelf together and move on, then yes, I would say that professional help is in order....