motivation

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I need help and yes coming here is wrong but you people don’t know me so i don’t feel too bad.

I need help in improving my concentration skills, i can’t seem to motivate myself into doing tasks which need completing urgently!!

Iv tried making lists and ticking off as i go along, but that has failed miserably. In fact its so miserable, its as miserable as my mere existance.

I even try listening to what my daddi always says about not doing todays jobs tomorrow as tomorrow never comes… but to no avail.

Post Grad is so annoying as everyone thinks your automatically aware of what you have to do…BS, i need to be hand held, i have a need to be told what to do and when to do!!

I need some guidence and someone to tell me off

Im sure most people here are or have been students…so help please

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I think you are still in love with that teacher of yours, this is causing you to ADD.

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how has that helped me?

im being serious here, i need some tips on how to motivate myself and belive me, thinking about my lecturer would and could not help me!

My strategies have failed me, will some insightful soul please enlighten me with their strategies please.

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What can I tell you; If one can't motivate her/himself, they are a FAILURE. Prove me wrong.

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mizz: dont worry yaar....i was like that too before...i was so lost, i felt like i needed to be told on what to do. See the first priority in life is to set goals! U cannot be motivated unless you have set your goals in life!
My personal goals would be like in 2 years i hope to complete my education and get a JOB! Also, to get married, and go for hajj! travel the world with my wife! These are just some of the goals which i have set in life.. You dont need anyone to tell you that you need motivation, cuz motivation comes on its own.

Yes sometimes people can lack from motivation, in my case: I had no motivation in life, no role models in my life, i was raised by single mother, no father no brother were there to be my role models! I wish i had a role model in life before to guide me and help me keep up with the right path. I wasted alot of time in life, sometimes i blame my self and sometimes my luck..but i learned the hard way that there is no such thing as luck its all upto you to choose the path and earn whatever u want.