Shikra bhai, it was a diff topic altogether - of women as Moms due their privacy when they are breast feeding.
this topic of adolescents keeping their rooms' doors closed in a diff one.
lost of reasons can be attributed to parents been a bit uneasy when th doors are closed by growing teens.
yes, they do also ned to grow up healthy and with their privacy.
but when kids become withdrawn socially or are on the ph or using internet or reading something inappripriate, then at in my training as an educator and child psychology scholar, i know that it is an issue with growing up teens now a days.
and the best way to handle it to interface the parents with their teen children and make them both preset the limits around this issue.
of course when kids are doing h.w. , they would need to keep their room's door partially closed for less noise to go into the room.
Dushi jee,
I realize that these are 2 different topics, hence I opened a new thread instead of derailing yours :) Thank you for your input and it makes perfect sense. Although, do you agree with mothers' decision? Or would you think that they need to trust their daughters and let them have their doors shut?
I know my wife will have more say in this when we have kids, but I will trust my kids by default until they break it. The day they break it, they will not be able to earn it back and I will make it clear to them.
Thank you girls for your input as well. So it seems like moms have problem with locked doors, not so much with shut doors.