Re: Mother’s day (mother in law)
Sometimes such gestures can easily be taken as “makhan lagana” type, as you’re not close to her, so it can seem like a very fake gesture even though you mean it from your heart. Its upto you if you feel comfortable or not,but if i were you, I wouldn’t. If my husband were to give my mom a mothers day gift or my dad a fathers day gift before us being married, i would have advised him not too as he wasn’t close to them either. Your MIL isn’t going anywhere, she will be in your life for a very long time. there will be plenty of mother days, and birthdays where you can show your appreciation. but at this point where you don’t even know her well, whats the reason to give her a mothers day gift? if it were her birthday and you gave her a card or flowers that would still be different but Mothers day is different IMO.