Mothers are more apathetic towards their children if they were CSDs

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Re: Mothers are more apathetic towards their children if they were CSDs

@psyah

About feeling more bad or less bad - on the contrary - if a mother does a good job at being a mother in a disadvantaged position then she is better than the mother who does a good job because it comes naturally to her. So I’m not saying CS mothers are inferior - I’m saying they may find it harder to respond - it may come less naturally to them - but if they respond accordingly then they are the ones doing the jihad … So it is not what you think …

I believe it is more natural for the man to earn and be the breadwinner so when he does this he merely establishes his duty, but when the woman does this then she has risen beyond what is natural and her acts are of double reward. Likewise, if the results are something to be relied on … CSD mothers may find it harder to respond, but when doing so I believe will be given double reward because it is harder for them.

I still don’t understand why elective CS is a bone of contention - I was never talking about emergency CS - those cases are unavoidable and there may be only informational needs for doing the tests … but for those who CHOOSE to the CS - it is for them this study is more pertinent.

I find this part of your post very patronising and condescending. My sister had my niece via C-Sec after being induced and spending 3 days in labour. This time she is choosing C-Sec bcz she dsnt want to go through that again. And she cares, loves and nurtures my niece because she loves her unconditionally and not out of a sense of duty. And being a mother came very very naturally to her.