Re: most of my cousins got married at 16!!
or some were 15 even, ( in pak obviosuly) AND they all seem pleased with that fact. and im now 23 getting married in july which i find an apporpriate age, and they all keep saying how im a buddi......and its about time i was married....these girls are now my age, so they all got 2 kids etc.but its so patronising cos i feel being 23 is quite young..my workmates who are all gorey are shocked, they say im a baby and that im geting married to quickly.i come home, and i get haii agi buddi kab shadi karegi, time nikal jayga godd sake....
its soo anoying...people talk about unmarried girls all the time. i have a friend whose 29 and unmarried and the amount of crap she has to go through is unbeleiveble..
so why is it in our culture being married at 15/16 is considered a good age, and if your above 22 and not maried then god help you.im actually getting married cos of my age, and the tension and stress you see parents go through, so i thought might as well.......
LOL nadz - so ALL the questions you have been asking so far could have also answered by your 15/16 year old cousins! of course now you do look like a buddhi asking for silly answers.
- just find a budda soon - or no more will be left
hahahahahhhh