^It has been repeatedly said..that do not...DO NOT compare yourself with Prophet Mohammad (saw) in this matter...
Okay, can we compare with abu bakar, umar, usman and ali
how about Abu hanifa, imam shaafa'i or imam malik,
cause they all beleive that polygamy is allowed ...
BTW, where does it say that only in this matter, we should not compare ourselves with prophet
So I guess it's a lot to do with what seems normal to us.
we think that listening to songs is also normal, that does not make it part of shariaat ..
Shariat is not dependent on our norms, it should be the other way around