Do you often say “I love you” to your beloved ones, or try to share your sincere feelings through your actions only ?
Is it shyness that prevent people from saying it directly or is it because they think such words might lose value after repetition ?
Some people like to be told directly, while others want to express mutual emotional feelings more through their actions.
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well its important to say i love you because words do matter
but actions are just as important
i mean if sumone kept saying i love you but did nothing to show it ..you wouldnt believe them
so you need to have a balance of both.
wow. i feel smart
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As natasha said , Both have to be balanced.
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^Walaikum Assalam brother.
@Topic. I thought its not that simple, as there are many more dimensions to it, but since it doesn't seem to be a very interesting discussion (as usual ) unlike the 'intellectual' ones or the ones people like to talk about/to, I should better refrain from sharing my views. in future as well
wow. i feel smart
Lol
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Both realli agree wat natasha said......my hubbi ATM does both even tho he is not wiv me ere....he says over the pone and sends sumthing wen ever he gets the chance
my hubbi ATM does both even tho he is not wiv me ere...
your hubbie's ATM does both???
^Walaikum Assalam brother.
@Topic. I thought its not that simple, as there are many more dimensions to it, but since it doesn't seem to be a very interesting discussion (as usual ) unlike the 'intellectual' ones or the ones people like to talk about/to, I should better refrain from sharing my views. in future as well
your discussions are always interesting... perhaps some people find it too complex for their lack of intellect. It has nothing to do with your topics :D
To answer your question...
it depends on who I am dealing with. like you said some people need to hear it more often then others. When dealing with those type of people I give them what they want to hear (pending what they want to hear is how i feel).
Then there are those that need to say it...they need to let their feelings out. I can be that kind of person at times as well.
your hubbie's ATM does both???
:D
it depends on who I am dealing with. like you said some people need to hear it more often then others. When dealing with those type of people I give them what they want to hear (pending what they want to hear is how i feel).
Then there are those that need to say it...they need to let their feelings out. I can be that kind of person at times as well.
Well said, thanks sister for sharing.
JazakAllah khair for the kind words of encouragement.
I believe sometimes its shyness especially in the case of girls (asian)... Like in the start of our relationship it took me ages to utter these three words.. even if my everything is saying, I couldnt utter these three words.. I can express them by any other mean, even there are many a times when there is silence of hours in between us just because he's waiting for these words and I couldnt say..
But your actions plus your words are equally important... Relations needs realisation in terms of both.
^Walaikum Assalam brother.
@Topic. I thought its not that simple, as there are many more dimensions to it, but since it doesn't seem to be a very interesting discussion (as usual ) unlike the 'intellectual' ones or the ones people like to talk about/to, I should better refrain from sharing my views. in future as well
I always enjoy your posts and learn something new from them. You should ignore the ones that do not even understand the meaning/message behind them.
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^ JazakAllah khair sister for the kind words of encouragement. When I wrote that post, I was just not in a good mood, though I didn't mean to show my dislikeness against anyone.