Okay, so just by chance I met this girl (she has her origins in our eastern neighbour) at my campus, she seemed nice and helpful, we seemed to get along well. Then she started stalking me (atleast I felt that way!) and insisted that I meet her at certain times. If I tried to avoid her, she’d chase me at locations I usually hang out. I’m more the academic sort who hates to be “tied” to people. But I tried to be nice to her, went to her place and talked and thought maybe she actually might be pretty decent…but as it turns out, she’s a control freak who likes everything done HER way, I felt really stifled being with her. She couldnt comprehend the fact that I have a heavy load of courses to take and insisted meeting up and spending immense amounts of time, which I just can’t. I’m too polite to say things on the face, so I just thought maybe she’d figure on her own. Then FINALLY, I tried the whole behan-bhai deal with her (i got the feeling she was romantically inclined so I just wanted to dash those hopes), that maybe she’d go away. But that bore opposite results – turns out, she wanted me to chaperone her around the (male) friends she get off the net (!), and when I actually got along with one of them, she threw a tantrum infront of the guy that you guys are IGNORING me and getting along too well. I really couldn’t make much of that. BUt anyway, I carried on, meeting her now and then, and gotta admit, she was nice too. But I’ve got so much on my plate, I can’t spend the time she wants me to spend with her…she wants specific time every week or day to be spent with her, which is something I can NOT do, specifically when I feel stifled around her. Oh and did I mention she actually invited me to dinner so I could carry her luggage all the way to the subway…
I realy dont know what to make of her. Guys help me out!!!
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** please explain what u mean by this?..i dont get it..
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stalker..been thru this b4..i just used to keep running and making excuses..i would just go the other way if i saw him and if he did catch me which sometimes he would cause he d run around to catch up wiht me the other way then id say i really have to go..and eventually he got the point..:)..alhtough i have to admit when he did he understand he told me off and threw soemthing in my face but at least it was over..
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** please explain what u mean by this?..i dont get it..
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stalker..been thru this b4..i just used to keep running and making excuses..i would just go the other way if i saw him and if he did catch me which sometimes he would cause he d run around to catch up wiht me the other way then id say i really have to go..and eventually he got the point..:)..alhtough i have to admit when he did he understand he told me off and threw soemthing in my face but at least it was over..:)
What I mean is that he should use whatever is left of her and move on to the next one... keep the line moving.
no kidding this will actually work.
And also stop using deodorant, but tell your friends in advance or you may lose them as well.
Always have stinky room, invite her over.
Girls physicaly have different characteristics, they have very superiors sense of smell. That will work for sure. You smelling like crape, will mess up your sweet image in her head. And she will cut you lose.
