Re: more quesstions.
rolla: if you have a proposal on table, please go through with following list. i suggest you to go on blind date too (the one in bublic blace even if you are in arrange setub). Islam is complete religion, and shadi is biggest decision of your life. your entire generation is based on your simple yes/no. if you are religions too, then istekhara is also good way to proceed but yes following are the derived concern from a famous hadith of last and only Prophet Muhammad (saw).
- family status, culture, financial status, religious compatibility, family background
- mental compatibility
- physically attractive
jazakallah khair
as far as your question, if i were in such situation then my answer would simply no and willing to wait.