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Lifestyle Relationships
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For women here:

would you go for a stable guy with very mother that irritates you ( lets assume his mother is a indian soap MIL)? OR

a unstable guy(with no real experience ) and a very mothery MIL ( polite kind) ?

given that both guys live with their moms.Idk ask them why do the want to live with moms.

For dudeeeeees:

Would you marry a fat, average looking, a bit lazy ,intellectually smart girl or

a dumb , pretty , gossip monger and who also wants you to live with her parents?

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Not many men want to be ghar damad no matter how hawt the girl is.

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  1. If the man is stable, and I am assuming you mean mentally and financially, then he would be able to resolve family issues if they arose. So I'd choose a stable dude any day.

  2. If she is intellectually smart, she'll figure out how important it is for her to work out and get into shape if that's an issue for her or her husband, and for her own well being and self image. I don't know why any stable man would want to marry a dumb girl. I can imagine a MIL wanting her son to marry a dumb girl so she can rule her and the girl wouldn't even know.

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But you already have your guy :emmy:

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Average looking, intellectual girl every time.

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Toh mein yehi toh keh rahee hoon ki shukr hai stable banda mila mujhey!

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SHES FAT TOO AND LAZY.

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People change.

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rolla: :mocking:

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At least she has potential, a dumb gossip monger most likely doesn't

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rolla: if you have a proposal on table, please go through with following list. i suggest you to go on blind date too (the one in bublic blace even if you are in arrange setub). Islam is complete religion, and shadi is biggest decision of your life. your entire generation is based on your simple yes/no. if you are religions too, then istekhara is also good way to proceed but yes following are the derived concern from a famous hadith of last and only Prophet Muhammad (saw).

  • family status, culture, financial status, religious compatibility, family background
  • mental compatibility
  • physically attractive

jazakallah khair

as far as your question, if i were in such situation then my answer would simply no and willing to wait.