Re: Morals and \ethics of Pakistanis living abroad
This was a good thread had potential if the topic was actually discussed, no need to close it.
In the West you just have easier access to the opportunities so yes you will see some Pakistani girls drinking, sleeping with guys, wearing bikinis, etc. Clearly in Pakistan can’t openly drink or wear a bikini so you won’t se that. But trust me many would do it if they had the chance. But it’s not every Pakistani girls even in the US. And those immoral girls would find a way regardless of setting, they would just adapt accordingly and just do what was easily accessible in that environment.
The girls in Pakistan have much more access to sexually frustrated guys of the same culture and religion 24/7, and even if she’s average, guys will still throw chits at her with their numbers or approach them or stalk them. I have seen it so many times. A guy slipped in a cell phone into my ex girlfriend’s shopping bag at the Park Towers mall in Karachi and would call it at night to try to talk to her. Creepy. This is not common in US, likely because a girl can report a guy to the police for harrassment. Girls here in US don’t have as much interaction with other Pakistani guys-- will see a Pakistani guy mostly at dinner parties or functions maybe 1-2 a month if that and most Pak girls don’t have any interest in white, black, spanish or asian guys (there are exceptions obviously). Maybe at school or university but still it’s limited to a handful compared to the interaction girls in Pakistan have with Pakistani guys. Limited options here for Pakistani girls. Pakistani life is also about being chill and relaxed, fun and enjoying life (if rich), their priorities are to go out all the time, socialize with everyone–and they have the resources and opportunities to do such things without worry. Life in US is too hectic to even prioritize fun over work or education–only 1% will have the time and resources to always prioritize fun here in US.
Everything happens in Pakistan just chup chup ke se..girls sleeping with guys is actually more common than you may think. But what I noticed is that these girls won’t give up their virginity before marriage because they know it will be held against them but they’ll do every other sexual act. That’s more deceiving..girl saying “I’m a virgin” while having done every sexual act possible minus the actual intercourse. This is a common tactic used by girls.
So many messed up stories in Pakistan I can tell you–rich guy living in defence makes his wife dance provocatively for his army friends while they drink alcohol. I’m sure he’s shared his wife sexually as well. Girl in Karachi would take my friend back to her place after school when parents were out of town and would get naked for him. And she wasn’t even his girlfriend. I know of two Pakistani guys who were married who went to Thailand to have sex with prostitutes. I know of another married woman who would sleep with her servant while her husband was at work. In 1970s, women in Pakistan were doing this also, women were getting pregnant before marriage and looking for abortions which are illegal so was done underground or if they were rich they’d be sent out to get it done in another country. One lady ended up having sex with her cousin while having nikkah with another guy and she ended up getting pregnant by her cousin. So imagine these days when everyone and their mothers has access to internet, cell phones, texting, facebook, skype, whatsapp, viber, etc. It is sooo much easier to do immoral things now and hide from parents with cell phones and social media apps. Whatsapp and viber are known for this stuff in Pakistan. Just go to any shady pakistani facebook Web page with creepy pakistani guys sharing their whatsapp number to chat with girls.
I’m not blaming it on girls only, guys are the worst which is why a girl should be careful and selective and shouldnt just interact with any guy.
But after my experience with an educated girl from Pakistan I will not be considering any girls from there for marriage. Too risky. Don’t know who is genuine there.
Sigh. Such a sad state of affairs.