So its all up to me now... do I suck it up and put up with 9 months of work and monotony in order to save more money, or do I take the easy way out..... quit now, have some down-time, relax and enjoy my (future) pregnancy & home and put him under a little pressure...... Would I be selfish if I did that?
If I were you - I would stick it out. It's not about being selfish. But what are you going to do in 9 months without work?
Are you truely going to be relaxing? Or making sure that is not one dish left in the sink ever! :)
I have seen many women thinking that they will take it easy but ending up more frazzled and tense because they have nothing constructive to do.
If you have a sound plan to take it easy - then use the 9 months to your fullest. Go see your parents, search for your new house etc.
Just make sure the 9 months you are not wishing that you shouldn't have quit.