Re: Monotonous life: Midlife crisis??
MAinVA
a couple of questions
1) do you have time to yourself..away from work and family
2) do you do things with your frends..
a) as a family,
b)as a couple and
c)solo
3) Do you and your husband try to seond time together as a couple, i.e. sansa bacchi bachoongri
You may just be depressed, or just burnt out, a 5 day vacation is fine, but if the workweek is hectic and weekends are just chores, then it would seem robotic and you may feel out of control.
Right now there is nothing in your post that indiciates that it is work that is causing this, and quitting work and then being depressed with nothing to do.
First you need to figure out what is the reason. if its work, can things be adjusted there in terms of what you are working on, if it is playtime/me-time limitations, how you can budget time.
if it is depression, then you need to talk to a counselor. I would suggest that you call one of the EAP (employee assistance program) ppl to start talking.