Monogamy

[Pisiform]

Re: Monogamy

@fitoor

@NavAhmed @Pisiform

But you said that after being married for a couple years, if a hot girl proposes chilling or hooking up, you would not be able to resist and say no to her advances.
With all those cleavages and tight yoga pants being all around you men, how can you resist especially after a couple years of marriage.

I said that? Well, if you truly love someone and have a good connection with your spouse, communicate well and lovingly, resisting shouldn’t be a problem at all. We humans and not animals to want to fuc* anything that moves

[NavAhmed]

Re: Monogamy

Lol when did I say that?

First of all I’ve never been married so it is a hypothetical question. Second thing is one of the reasons I am afraid of a long term committed relationship is what if I cheat? what if I slip? what if some hot nurse or a female doctor turns seductive towards me? how I’m gone avoid having an extra-marital/extra-relationship affair? temptation can be very hard to resist at times.

But I think I’l be ok, I have lasted seven months now without any hanky penky and my resolve is gettig stronger day by day

[fitoor]

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The first paragraph was for third string and the second paragraph was for you and pisiform…i’m lazy, I thought I would answer all 3 in one comment.

[Doppleganger]

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@third_string

Yeah i think most of us aren’t wired to be to tied down to one woman, however i don’t speak for all guys when I say this but I’d only want one wife, though I think It’s easier in theory than in practice.

how about one wife and multiple londis? Best of both worlds.

[redvelvet]

Re: Monogamy

@NavAhmed

Lol when did I say that?

First of all I’ve never been married so it is a hypothetical question. Second thing is one of the reasons I am afraid of a long term committed relationship is what if I cheat? what if I slip? what if some hot nurse or a female doctor turns seductive towards me? how I’m gone avoid having an extra-marital/extra-relationship affair? temptation can be very hard to resist at times.

But I think I’l be ok, I have lasted seven months now without any hanky penky and my resolve is gettig stronger day by day

That’s great. Good to know you didn’t shrivel up. See, you are able to manage self-control. Keep it up.

[SindSagar]

Re: Monogamy

@fitoor

I don’t think men can grasp this concept of mongamy.

Isn’t that why they are allowed multiple wives, as long all are treated fairly?

The non-Muslim desi men I know, aren’t able to be faithful to their wives. Monogamy is such a foreign concept to them because men are not able to grasp it, if there’s an opportunity to cheat, they will. Occasionally, they need a different dish for dinner, “strange” is what they say.

Before the gender issue is brought up, I know women cheat too but for different reasons.

Wrong! actually Baba Adam was truly monogamous!

[Cheegum]

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There’s Polygamy.
There’s Monogamy.
And then there’s Zerogamy.

[fitoor]

Re: Monogamy

@Pisiform

I said that? Well, if you truly love someone and have a good connection with your spouse, communicate well and lovingly, resisting shouldn’t be a problem at all. We humans and not animals to want to fuc* anything that moves

@NavAhmed

Lol when did I say that?

First of all I’ve never been married so it is a hypothetical question. Second thing is one of the reasons I am afraid of a long term committed relationship is what if I cheat? what if I slip? what if some hot nurse or a female doctor turns seductive towards me? how I’m gone avoid having an extra-marital/extra-relationship affair? temptation can be very hard to resist at times.

But I think I’l be ok, I have lasted seven months now without any hanky penky and my resolve is getting stronger day by day

Faithful guys do exist :Ois it really possible…?

Maybe you guys exist in some alternate universe. I can’t reach you alls.

Leading double lives(the perfect husband and father at home, mask comes off while he visits his mistresses, then back on playing the perfect husband and provider mode) are the only guys I’ve come across. “love to f***” kinda guys.
I wish I could move…lol.