Money: Love, Hate Relationship

Re: Money: Love, Hate Relationship

Saima, there is nothing wrong with you! You are fine and thank God untouched by todays societies materialistic madness.

I don't like this craze of people who already have a normal mobile telephone, and each time a new models comes out they run to the stores to buy it while their other mobile phone is still working! My older brother got so crazy, he went to buy the one which also takes pictures and kept urging me to get one too at the time! I'm not rich and I don't want to waste money on things like that! I have a photo camera which I've had for years which is still fine for me if I want to take a picture [even my photo camera is old fashioned according to my brother, he was shocked when I got a free digital camera for signing up somewhere and I gave it to him because I already have a normal camera, he said I'm nothing if I don't at least own a digital camera! I doubt it if he can still be cured...]. And what about television sets? I still have an old small tv. It has different channels, it has colour and it's fine for me. Yet most people who visited me, kept remarking how small my tv is and how I should get a large one. Or that I should buy a car, it's too expensive and while it is easier when you have little children, we go everywhere by bike and public transport. Yet, to many people I am nothing because I don't have a car! How stupid is that? Or my carpet, some silly people remarked to me, when I just moved, that I should not have chosen a carpet, but a wooden floor, which is very much in fashion nowadays here. But the carpet was super cheap and it's oké a wooden floor is much more expensive. Why spend more money than necesary?

People around me are very very materialistic and never seem to be satisfied. Things you buy should be of good quality, well as good as you can afford anyway and it should be NECESSARY. The economy here is difficult right now, jobs are hard to find, I don't understand why people are still so materialistic!

I wish there were people here like you! You have a fine healthy refreshing mentality. Don't change. :)

Re: Money: Love, Hate Relationship

saimanyc

I appreciate your sentiments. You are amongst minor species in this world. The fact is that money is the most undeniable reality of this world and everything comes down to this. Things like mental satisfaction etc dont have durablity factor and its the financial stability that is important in the long run.

So feel blessed that you think that way and hope it lasts.

Re: Money: Love, Hate Relationship

Be thankful 4 what u have, dont 4get the poor, u can share what u have with them... u'll actually begin to like money more :)

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I will only say one thing just have respect for money do not waste it, if you have more than you require give it to charity. There was a point when I spent money like water, wasted it on stupid things. Now that I am working and sweating for money I respect the value of money and spend it wisely and try to save it for rainy days and regret not having the qadr for it earlier.

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:smiley: i’ve found my new best friend! :hugz:

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Thats not fair tht u havnt replied to me ,

Ignore me all l.

y saima

Re: Money: Love, Hate Relationship

twin-born I'm not sure what your question was. You wanted to buy you a laptop or send you money? How is that going to help me with my issue?