money and spouse

Lifestyle Relationships
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How do wives feel when they have to lend money to husband or his parents.( you WILL get the money back)

Does anyone feel.its.a husband job to be financial secure so he doesn’t need to ask his wife.

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Re: money and spouse

hi nadz...

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Re: money and spouse

If you are ready to share your body and soul with your husband (which you will not get back in original state) then there is no harm in lending some money that you WILL get back.

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Re: money and spouse

The title should be, "money or spouse".

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money and spouse

I wouldn't be hesitant to give it (if I had anything to offer) I imagine it wouldn't be a constant occurrence and even if he needed it my husband wouldn't ask but sometimes things happen. If your getting it back then don't think to much about it, families support each other, especially if both spouses are working.

Does it happen a lot? Does MIL ask you herself or goes to her son first? I thought you didn't work?

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Re: money and spouse

If its a dire need then I think you should be ok with giving it. If it happens all the time then I would be concerned about what's going on.