ok i know they are wonderful and i love mine more than anything in the world, but seriously man
it’s such a strange relationship
mine drives me INSANE until the point where i explode and i feel justified in my anger
and then she’ll go do something nice and i’ll feel so guilty
and lately she’s been really, really picking at something which i understand why but there is only so much a body can take
so just now i was on the phone with my sister (the two of them are out shopping :p) and my mom found out it was me on the phone and she thought i was screwing something up (which i wasn’t-she’s incredibly paranoid about me all the time, and this is probably what drives me the most insnae) and she grabs the phone and starts panicking:smack: which of course drove me past my breaking point and i was not very nice to her
and so she said why are you being so rude to me? (she never ever says stuff like this we usually just fight back and forth, so if she does, i know i’ve really hurt her feelings)
gotta love your mom, eh? the biggest thing about them is their capacity to forgive, at least in my experience. you can screw around and mess up and drive them to the edge, and seriously, if you apologise and are sincere about it, moms will forgive! it really is unconditional love. so i'd say, give her a big hug, tell her you love her and you're sorry, explain why you were bugged, and i'm sure she'll understand.
dang.
now i miss my mommy! :(
hi. please know that there is nothing worth hiding from your Mom, ever. patience will get your through these little provocations on something as minor as you being on a phone.
please respect your Mom and little by little you can take care of her panic by building her confidence and trust in you with the world and the world with you.
well mother daughter relationships are so complicated, but appreciate them while u still live with your mom! yea i would just go apologize and give her a hug and try to put her in a good mood again
