moms fault or the daughters......?

I asked you that question after your above posting about hurting her feelings when she reads it. So neither me nor ansoon are narrow minded.

To your question, If I remember correctly, then it say in Islam that one shouldn't disobey their parents even if they are on shirk...or something like that. Whatever zinah her mom did was wrong but at the same time she raised her, provided her with all life necessaties. Instead of disobeying her mother, fighting with her, etc; she should make sure that she doesn't do all those things in her life.