he is embarrassed to talk about it .. so is that She who updated you on this?
well we are all good friends going way back and they are pretty open about their sex life. when we meet up they are happy about being married and everything is going great. I just joked about my friend cuddling his wife after sex...and everything just went awkward. When I asked him whats up he didn't want to talk about it but I got it out of him... his wife wants him to stay in bed after. But he just told he feels really f*cked up afterward and doesn't want to. Initially I just laughed it off.
He feels depressed? Hmmmm. Does he acknowledge himself that he feels depressed after having sex? Or is this something that his wife is assuming but that may not even be true?
she just told me once its done he leaves the room. Doesnt want to talk to her.....walks out of the house sometimes for 15 minutes and comes back as if nothing happened.
Maybe he just feels the need to be alone...and process his thoughts. I've heard that some men don't like to cuddle after being sexually intimate. Maybe taking a break is his natural response. Or perhaps he has negative attitudes about sex? In some people a feeling of guilt after sex can stem from negative attitudes about sex in upbringing or possibly sexual abuse. Or......is he troubled by something or someone else on his mind?
Well he has not been sexually abused, I know him since I was 10. His parents are strict conservative Muslims who tried their best that their son doesn't have any interactions with females.....etc etc. He loves his wife and cuddles her any other time....he just doesn't want to be around her after sex.