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I recently had my nikkah and without knowing i'm falling in love with my husband.. Nikkah is beautiful!!
This statment is actually tried and true. One of my friends was deeply in love with this guy but it didn't work out between their families. She opted for arranged marriage and was not too enthusiastic until she signed the Nikah papers. OMG She prays everyday in thankfulness that she got who she got, she loves him so much now.
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I agree, the Nikah for us was so special. We have been in love since the time of our baat paki, but the love grew even more after our Nikah and turned into such an appreciation for one another. I'll never forget the feeling of seeing him for the first time after our Nikah and looking at my "husband". The camera caught us in so many pictures constantly looking and admiring each other on the Nikah day. :) It will always be more special than the actual wedding which is 8 months after our Nikah. :)
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i want tooooo experience it lol
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Nikkah is Alhumdulilah beautiful n im sure everyone loves it once gone thru the process... I still remember i was sooooo nervous at the Nikkah time, but Alhumdulilah once all was done i was quite relaxed and enjoyed the rest of the function.. Though i cried alot, i just cudn't control my tears...
Nikkah is Alhumdulilah beautiful n im sure everyone loves it once gone thru the process... I still remember i was sooooo nervous at the Nikkah time, but Alhumdulilah once all was done i was quite relaxed and enjoyed the rest of the function.. Though i cried alot, i just cudn't control my tears...
Omg I couldn't stop giggling during the entiree Nikah! I practically missed it because for some reason I just couldn't hold it in lol. I think it was because I felt truely happy at that moment. My cousins weren't helping either. We were able to see my fiance through the glass doors who looked so serious during the Nikah reading so they couldnt help poking fun while my aunt and khala were telling us to shh shh and laughing themselves, we were trying to be quiet but couldnt hold it in so it was making us laugh more lol. But then when my mom started to cry, I cried too. lol I still don't know why I couldn't stop laughing for no reason...oh god I hope that doesn't happen at my Ruksati while on stage lol.
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ALLAH PUT LOVES IN both hearts after nikkah it is absolutely right and both have to built that love more strong by love,truth and trust so that both of them remain intact till death.
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intact till death??????????????
in today's world??????? That's way too impossible my dear
I have been and seen weddings which lasted for months only and after 10 yrs of marriage they get divorced and stuff
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I was more in love "before" the nikah! lol!
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korn hold your horses moving very fast it depend on every one family broughtup
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oh wow..
nice experience...
i wish i will hav ths also"MOHABBAT BY NIKKAH" :D
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my cousin had a total arranged marriage, and she told me, once she signed the nikkah and saw her husband, she was in love. I really do think there is truth to it.
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how sweet 
i am not married but i do believe and have always believed in what you gals are saying. but then … ummmm… how do u agree to a completely stranger man? Thats the prob with me. Mujh se haan nahin hothi when a proposal comes all of sudden and out of blue. Neither any guy has attracted or clicked to me. I hate myself… i cannot push myself to say Yes to someone totally stranger and somone who is not clicking. I TOTALLY understand how worried my parents are but apnay dill ka kiya karoon 
My both sisters have arranged marriages but both sisters liked the guys and they happily agreed.
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FT, when the right guy comes across, you just know! Everything just feels right even in an arranged marriage. That is what my MIL used to say. I went with my parent's judgement and love just happened!
If you feel hesitant, try talking to the guy whom your parents trust. I hope for the best for you. :)
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mahi u r wise,FT izat danay wala ek insan hota hay entertainment kay lia u will find many
persons depends upon u n ur family how u wanna move in ur life
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^ i agree completely with mahi. It's totally understandable that you're probably freaked out and having second thoughts about signing your life off to a guy you hardly know. But this is also where realizing that your parents really do you know better than yourself sometimes and that they sincerely want what's best for you comes into play. Also when you know, you KNOW. Allah has given you a conscious so you can use it! :) second guessing yourself is more often than not leads to regret later.
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All you can know about a starnger guy can be his education, family and financial status. The guys reached to our door stop has been so far good in all of these three. this info is good to satisfy my parents, but not enough for me. I want to find him somewhat physically attractive too. coz mein ne usskay saath rehna hai. Now everyone has a different taste in this regard. like someone who is attractive to me , may not be attractive to others and vice versa. I am looking for that person whom i find attractive and not whom my parents find “OKAY” “theek hai”. all i get to hear is that tumharay liye kiya koi shehzada aaey ga? ziyada nakhray nahin karo. shakal mein kiya rakha hai. rishtay nahin miltay. etc etc. I really do not want to have a love affair with him for a year or two n then marry. nope
2 men, one from family and one from outside told me something that shocked me, was "aik bachay ke baad mohabat ho jaey gi. his looks wont bother you after you have kids " I want kids, but i wont marry only to have kids. i am thinking now if men really have different perspective about shadi. and thats why majority of guys leave it on their moms to decide.
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