Mixed Race

Why do those moti tazi auntias make weird faces as you as soon as you tell them that one of your parent is white.. like seriously, why desi culture is so asphyxiated… complex stricken perhaps?

My question to you people is would you be any different ( personality wise) if you had a non-pakistani/Indian parent?

Not sure what kind of question is this. It is offensive, full of prejudice and negative.

Not a good way to start a topic or thread IMHO. Never seen those so called moti tazi aunties making faces on this, not so uncommon 'revelation'.

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Nope not at all offensive... desi women tend to look down upon you if you tell them your father or mother is caucasian.. why I don't know, your guess is as good as mine... then I asked if you would be a different person had you not have desi parents.

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oh sorry so you got offended if I call them moti , tazis? Alright.. take it back...

I replace it with skinny, slim, fit Pakistani women.. happy now?

So just cause you didn't see it, it doesn't abide?

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Hmmm I dont understand how the original question was wrong. Obviously it is the moti tazi aunties are in the wrong if they make faces or look down on people who are mixed.

And to answer the original question, I dont think my personality might be different if I had one parent that wasnt Paki. Because my religious community tends to be pretty tolerant and accepting of interracial relationships, it even encourages them. Second I have spent most of my life in the US, so its wouldnt be strange to me. The place I live in is already very diverse. I might know more about a certain culture and maybe know another language. I really dont see anything wrong with mixed marriages as long as both people have similar goals and values.

Also when it comes time for me to get married, I plan on asking my parents to look for someone non desi because I would really like to be part of another culture.

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oh hey, heyhey.. thx for that.. you sure brought a fresh breeze to my thread ;)

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Yes, as much as I would like to deny it. I've realized my personality is heavily based around how I was grown up and the culture the surrounds me..........

lol... Nahin bhai X-2.. I only mentioned in my first post not a good way to start a topic which is offensive. OP came with denial and sarcasms so it went on for a while...

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erm- I thought Pakistani girls had the consensus that mixed guys are hot?! what happened to that?

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I think that is a general consensus. Most mixed children are good looking.

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Their daughters have no objection or they mind being with one, but it's their mothers.. yes mothers who think they are always mighty high compare to a Muslim white woman.. pure jealousy I guess.

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I haven't seen anybody make faces.
In fact almost everybody I know when hearing about a white/desi couple go "awww their kids are going to be so cute!" (which is true)

i find that annoying, cz nobody says that about desi kids. its the appreciation for gora rang i tell u.

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[note]This thread isn't about the use of the word moti tazi or skinny aunties or whatever! Now stick to the topic! [/note]

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Look all aunties are moti tazi. Otherwise they aren't aunties. There are something else shudder Oh yes desi girls look forward to the day when you guys become moti tazi aunties.

As for your issue Mac IT, screw the aunties. Who gives a damn. They are desi aunties. They have nothing better to do than gossip.

Yeah thanks for doing that but you are still ignore on my list..

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^ wow, now that should make her suicidal.

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You wish you could put me on ignore Mc12 ;)