why is it assumed that just cus some guy or gal states they like u, its automatically ur fault or that you must have provoked them to have such feelings?
cant it be that they themselves blindly believed that you are interested, when ur not and ur only being friendly cus thats what ur like?
(kaka, sorry if this is another whinging thread.. )
Re: misunderstood feelings
ugh. i hate miscommunication/misdirection of signals.
A highly relevant topic, Sadzzz.
No, you should rightfully place the blame of the liker and apply a fork to their eye (right or left, whatever your preference). Or let them off easy, either one. Or, you can always actually say you like them, too, and have a nice relationship.
thanx Nadia… 
RT, why would i want to tell someone i like them just cus they misunderstood my intentions and feelings? how does that solve anything?
^ For a relationship. If you're not interested, that doesn't apply. But a fling now and then would add a bit of spice to life.
You know I think first of all if someone likes you regardless of whether you did anything to make them like you or not you should be flattered. It's nice to be appreciated for who you are.
At the same time you should also respect the person's feelings who likes you even if you don't like them back ..and not make them feel ashamed or guilty for having feelings for you.
I don't think you can really help liking someone ..even if you know they are not all interested.
let me just add, im not out to disrespect anyone. If anyone really truelly knows me, they know that much that i wouldnt do such a thing.
Yes, i was terribly flattered that somenoe did like me. But i am noy happy for them to blame me for initiating the liking. Fine, you can like a person, but dont blame them if they say they dont have the same feelings
and... im not saying liking can be helped... it happens all the time. Thats not the aim of this thread
wow! so the guy blames you for him liking you??
What did he say!?
It's all your fault I like you!
nah sadzzz I know you well enough to know you're not like this.
Yeah you can't really get mad at someone for not liking you back!
sadzz its ur fault u were born :Pretty: :p
^ thanx waleed 
but i dont think looks have much to do with it, but maybe were the deciding factor
is he worth all this worry ? dafa kar yara!
Sadzzz, empty your inbox. 
i did :)
It’s saying it’s still full. 
i just deleted stuff... hmmm
hey its done now...dunno why it didnt delete before